Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Should I say something to the coworker who sent my husband a nude photo?

The new admin assistant at my husband's office emailed a personal photo of a guy surfer naked, rear view, just to him. My husband surfs. He says he ignored it and nothing's happened since. I finally went to his office and met her. Her looks and manner were very similar to a former coworker. My husband had a friendship with this other woman that crossed the friendship line.


I intend to watch closely here but should I say something to her about the photo? What would be short and to the point?Should I say something to the coworker who sent my husband a nude photo?
Let it alone and handle your distain for the woman through your husband. It sounds like you're diligent about your husbands co-workers so the chance of her doing anything with your husband will be slim.Should I say something to the coworker who sent my husband a nude photo?
Oh for God's sake! The woman sent him a pic of some dude surfing naked. A shot from ';behind'; so to speak. This is something that might be on a Hallmark greeting card. He's a SURFER! It was obviously meant as a JOKE alluding to his hobby. Your problem is not with the woman. Your problem is with a husband you can't trust!
Super sweetly say ';Oh hi it's so nice to meet you, well just so you know next time you get the urge to send some nudies of someone to my husband, send them to me first that way we can avoid awkward conversations like these :) oh and by the way if anything goes on between you two, I will personally rip your organs out through your nose.'; curtsy and walk away like you were just talking about cake.
Maybe it's not your place to say something to her. If your husband was offended by the photo, he can either say something to her himself or report her to HR for sexual harassment.
Forward the e-mail to the corporate office and leave your cheating husband.
OMG. How unprofessional. I think I would let her know that it is sexual harassment to send photo's of that sort to your husband.
Say something only if your husband is into guys, otherwise let it go.
maybe the administrative assistant knows that your husband is gay, and you don't.
Your husband needs to be the one to say something.





And why was she sending him pictures of a naked dude?
Please respect the fact that my husband and I are married .

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