You now know the definition of ';selfish'; and this is the start. You will only see this get worse through your marriage. He will demand his way in everything. Vacations, money, kids, discipline, chores......everything!
Time to stop the insanity for your own well being.
If he's not willing to stop the demands - get out now for you will only see it get worse. (and you can't take it now!)Is it normal for a newly married couple for a husband to be wanting oral sex only?
This answer should NOT be read while eating your breakfast:
If you were my daughter this is what I would tell you: I seriously think he is gay. And there is nothing wrong with being gay. However it is cruel to marry someone and ';pretend'; you are straight.
Here is the ugly reality. In terms of sensation, and equipment, there is little to no difference between receiving oral sex from a man or a woman. So if he doesn't like intercourse, and only likes oral and even that not so much, he is gay.
Well, yea, we all like oral sex. But there is just something about the blowing your wad inside the woman that you love. This is just about the best thing ever and that is what is meant by really making love to your wife. You've just made your deposit inside her as in coming together. Maybe he is afraid of intimancy or getting you pregnant.
Sounds like he is not the marrying kind. I would get out of this marriage quick smart and you have grounds for annulment I think. See a legal person about this. He obviously does not have your welfare at heart. It is a pity you didn't suss this problem before you married him. Also he aint satisfying you so stop satisfying him. Hope you have somewhere you can go. Get out while the gettin's good.
I assume from your question that you were having intercourse prior to marriage. Is it possible that he is hiding something from you, like an std issue? I think you should sit down with him and talk about this. Explain to him how you feel and what you want. Also, that you need his honesty to work through this. There is no point in guessing.
Yeah, I think that is totally wrong, its just not natural. As a newly wed you should be doing it every which way, not just oral.
And for him to be sleeping in another room? That has some serious ?? behind that one. Have you asked him what is wrong?
he probably figures now that your married he can get oral more so try suggesting he give you oral before he gets it again or maybe he just likes how you perform the act are you that good maybe you should ask yourself.
He sounds like he's a gay ';Down Low'; guy. He hs these secret gay rendezvous while pretending to be a regular heterosexual life style. Confront him.
woah...it's a big problem...
have you asked him why is he acting like that?
if i were you i'll be going to my friends, family asking for advice on this...
he is being a jerk...
it was super smart of you to really get to know the man you married before the wedding. good job.
Maybe it is a compliment to you and u are taking offense to it....
This could mean u simply give a great ********
Knock off the oral with him...tell him you need attention and you're going to get it one way or another...whether he sleeps alone or not!
I think you could get this marriage annulled and I would. Your husband is sick.
Idk?
wow this is bizarre. i think your man has intimacy problems
just ask him why
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