How can a husband become to pushy and easy?

My wife says she can tell when i am waiting for sex or thinking about i and that i smuther her too much. Is it true that women want what they cant have? Is it true that the more a husband backs off the more the wife wants him? what is it that really keeps married people happy after 20 years and why do they divorce after so long........How can a husband become to pushy and easy?
I think a lot of women use sex as a reward or withhold it as punishment, when in fact a gentlemen that was a good friend of the family was married for 48 years, he told me that him and his wife never combined the two, their sex life(altho they were completely monogamous to each other)was separate from their marriage. I thought this was very interesting, how could this be? He said no matter what happened in their day or what happened with each other, they still kept a passion for one another in the bedroom because they were two different people there. I don't know how to get my future one on board for this type of outlook but I like the thought of it. How can a husband become to pushy and easy?
No, that is not true. But, I can agree that when a man is constantly wanting sex from a woman it can begin to feel like that is what you are in the relationship for and that is the only reason and it can begin to be a turn off. It is hard if you are always interested in sex too because when you try to show that you are interested in other parts of your wife (what she likes to do and just hanging out together) she begins to think you have an agenda and just want to have sex.





I would talk to her and let her know that you apologize for begin so aggressive about sex but not aggressive about the other parts of her. Let her know that you want to begin to new experiences with her and do activities together.
What keeps a couple together is communication, respect and commitment. She's communicating that you're being clingy, so back up a little bit. I can tell when my husband wants sex without him ever saying anything. Women's intuition perhaps... But at a time when I don't want it and he's being pushy about it, it is extremely annoying. Wouldn't it annoy you if the situation was reversed?
I would not agree that women want what they cannot have. A woman usually refuses sex because her husband has pissed her off
Try mopping the kitchen floor and taking the trash out, and watch her jump all over you...