Do you think a wife should be informed of her husband cheating on her?

A married man sexually abused me and I don't know if I should tell his wife. My friends say no, my heart says I should. What do you think?Do you think a wife should be informed of her husband cheating on her?
Screw telling the wife, tell the police. What he did was a crime. His wife will then find out soon enough. And perhaps, there are others he has done this to, By you coming forward, so might they.Do you think a wife should be informed of her husband cheating on her?
I have very mixed feelings about a situation like that.


My concern about telling her is that she is an innocent victim in this and what does it accomplish by telling her.


At the same time, I think she has the right to know her husband is cheating on her.


If I was the wife, I would want to know.....so I could have some say and control about what would be and should be done about my relationship with this man I thought was being faithful to me.


At the same time....who knows the situation in her marriage. Maybe she has someone on the side herself and she's just as happy to have him out of the house!


That's a tough one. If he sexually abused you, you should report it to the police! I'm sure his wife would find out when he has to go to court!
sexually abused u? u mean raped you? or did u want to do it also? if he abused you, you should def tell his wife. if you seduced him, don't. why? because he'd be a sick person in the head if he sexually abused you. but if u seduced him to bed, he's a guy.... what do u expect? i know people are gonna give me thumbs down but let's face it. 90% of married men would cheat if some girl seduced them. they are men. they forget many things when they get horny.... especially when they get older....





he might feel ashamed after cheating on his wife when he thinks about it later on and never do it again. yet again if he raped u, do tell his wife.
I think that you should. Because if you don't then you are leaving it open for this person to do it again and again. I would tell the wife she deserves to know what she is actually married to!
You're right,follow your heart.Sorry that had to happen to you, but think if you were in her place.God Bless You!
Hell yes, you should. If your husband did that to some poor innocent female would you want to know?
G is right call the police on that one. She will find out eventually.
If you want to get back at him tell.
TELL SOMEONE BECAUSE HE WILL DO IT TO SOMEONE ELSE!
you def. should.
Do it so it doesn't happen again.