He never wants to go anywhere. After coming home from work, he just takes a nap, watches tv, then goes back to bed. I'm bored out of my mind. I just want to go out, but I'm new to the area and don't have friends here. I don't want to go to a bar alone. I like physical activities. What to do?What's a fun thing to do alone if your husband is boring?
Try to find a newcomers club in your area or join some interest groups. Good luck.What's a fun thing to do alone if your husband is boring?
Gym Membership.
1. Good for your health
2. Expend energy
3. Meet other people
4. Many offer classes and have swimming pools
5. Develop self confidence
6. It's not at all strange to go by yourself
Have fun!
tell him you want to have a companion and he is not being part of a couple....go bike ride/bowling/tennis/join a dance club ..look up park and rec in your area for events you can articipate in .. Judo ?
Join a gym, sign up for a softball or co-ed volley ball team. Bicycle rides, jogging can also be physical besides keeping you in shape.
Go out with friends. Bowling, shopping, Movies, anything! :]]
Join the gym, take up salsa dancing or tango.
ceramics.
Horseback riding. I love it. Check to see if their are local stables around.
Or go get a manicure/pedicure.
Make friends, now!
I DON'T MEAN TO SOUND GROSS BUT CHEAT!!!!!!
join a gym or take kick boxing lessons
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
How do you have a normal sex life when your husband has a fetish?
My husband has a slip fetish. It is to the point that we cannot have sex without a slip being involved in some way. I was okay with this to begin with but it is now getting to a point where it is making me feel bad-- like the fetish is more important than I am.
Does anyone else have a relationship with someone who has a fetish? How do you make it work?How do you have a normal sex life when your husband has a fetish?
You're going to have to tell him to calm down a bit on his fetish. It's just unhealthy to always have to have your fetish. Remind him that sex is about pleasing the other person, and putting their needs first. It shouldn't be a one sided issue.
It's great that you would entertain his desires, that's what it's all about. But he needs to be aware that it shouldn't be an every day thing, especially if you're not as in to it as he is.
My ex wife cheated on me a lot of times. Then I took her back some time later for a while. She became obsessed with like bondage S%26amp;M kind of things and pain and masicism. It was really too much for me, and it along with a combination of other things contributed to our failure. But, I think the most important thing is to think of the other person and not be selfish when it comes to sex. She was like a man, always about her needs. That's just not healthy, and it makes the other person feel bad.
You should talk to him. Maybe get some books or reading material, for the both of you to learn different ways to ';come together';, to speak on the sexuality side of your relationship.
Good luck.How do you have a normal sex life when your husband has a fetish?
I had a friend in a similar situation, and there's only one thing that works: you have to communicate this with him. (In her case, it was a wig...).
The fetish isn't more important than you are, of course, but that isn't the issue. The issue is that parts of your sex life are making you uncomfortable and that is never right.
I realize it's not an easy convo, but maybe start out by telling him what you do like and then thinking of options that don't involve a slip. But at some point, I think you need to state exactly what you typed here.
I would like my wife to wear thigh highs and stilettos all the time but I know that's not realistic. Having her completely naked is just fine. You need to tell your husband that you have a fetish as well and it doesn't involve a slip. Tell him what you want to wear or what you don't want to wear.
You do what I do...you participate in it 80% of the time. But now and then you try to throw in something else...a fantasy of your own.
An article of clothing is easy...you don't have to pay attention to it. If it is a full blown fantasy that involves role play then it may get boring replaying the same scenerio over and over.
fetish guys are ALL about the fetish. they never see NOT doing the fetish sometimes is also a nice change of pace.
tell him tonight the slip's involvement will be keeping the inside of the slip drawer warm.
and tough sh*t if he doesn't like it normal every now and then.
I think that's an easy one, if all he wants is for you to wear a slip. My husband is worse, I wouldn't call his a fetish, more like a fanatic way of thinking. How I deal with it, I avoid having sex with him. If I could fix my sex life by just wearing a slip, I would.
That is someone you married and if he like slips then give him slips, wrap one around your head too and jump on the bed like a crazed slip woman lol....
Suggest that HE wear the slip. Every time.
You married him that way. Get over it.
make ';his'; night twice a month... I believe that's enough...
You need to see that you husband gets long term treatment with a mental health professional. Seek a psychiatrist, a behavior therapist, just find a clinician who is experienced in successfully treating this area. This is the only way for you to make this work.sheer makeup lips
Does anyone else have a relationship with someone who has a fetish? How do you make it work?How do you have a normal sex life when your husband has a fetish?
You're going to have to tell him to calm down a bit on his fetish. It's just unhealthy to always have to have your fetish. Remind him that sex is about pleasing the other person, and putting their needs first. It shouldn't be a one sided issue.
It's great that you would entertain his desires, that's what it's all about. But he needs to be aware that it shouldn't be an every day thing, especially if you're not as in to it as he is.
My ex wife cheated on me a lot of times. Then I took her back some time later for a while. She became obsessed with like bondage S%26amp;M kind of things and pain and masicism. It was really too much for me, and it along with a combination of other things contributed to our failure. But, I think the most important thing is to think of the other person and not be selfish when it comes to sex. She was like a man, always about her needs. That's just not healthy, and it makes the other person feel bad.
You should talk to him. Maybe get some books or reading material, for the both of you to learn different ways to ';come together';, to speak on the sexuality side of your relationship.
Good luck.How do you have a normal sex life when your husband has a fetish?
I had a friend in a similar situation, and there's only one thing that works: you have to communicate this with him. (In her case, it was a wig...).
The fetish isn't more important than you are, of course, but that isn't the issue. The issue is that parts of your sex life are making you uncomfortable and that is never right.
I realize it's not an easy convo, but maybe start out by telling him what you do like and then thinking of options that don't involve a slip. But at some point, I think you need to state exactly what you typed here.
I would like my wife to wear thigh highs and stilettos all the time but I know that's not realistic. Having her completely naked is just fine. You need to tell your husband that you have a fetish as well and it doesn't involve a slip. Tell him what you want to wear or what you don't want to wear.
You do what I do...you participate in it 80% of the time. But now and then you try to throw in something else...a fantasy of your own.
An article of clothing is easy...you don't have to pay attention to it. If it is a full blown fantasy that involves role play then it may get boring replaying the same scenerio over and over.
fetish guys are ALL about the fetish. they never see NOT doing the fetish sometimes is also a nice change of pace.
tell him tonight the slip's involvement will be keeping the inside of the slip drawer warm.
and tough sh*t if he doesn't like it normal every now and then.
I think that's an easy one, if all he wants is for you to wear a slip. My husband is worse, I wouldn't call his a fetish, more like a fanatic way of thinking. How I deal with it, I avoid having sex with him. If I could fix my sex life by just wearing a slip, I would.
That is someone you married and if he like slips then give him slips, wrap one around your head too and jump on the bed like a crazed slip woman lol....
Suggest that HE wear the slip. Every time.
You married him that way. Get over it.
make ';his'; night twice a month... I believe that's enough...
You need to see that you husband gets long term treatment with a mental health professional. Seek a psychiatrist, a behavior therapist, just find a clinician who is experienced in successfully treating this area. This is the only way for you to make this work.
How do I set up the blue tooth on my husband's GZ1 Type S cell phone?
We have lost the book and it asks for an access code?How do I set up the blue tooth on my husband's GZ1 Type S cell phone?
call customer service for the carrier.
call customer service for the carrier.
Can my ex husband and i both claim daycare expenses for our son?
We have two boys and I claim one and he claims the other. I have been claiming my younger son and his daycare expenses. My ex just asked the daycare for a tax receipt. He told me he puts both sons on his taxes and marks one non-dependant but still puts the daycare expense for him. Can he do that? I thought only one of us can claim it, and that would be me. Advice please.Can my ex husband and i both claim daycare expenses for our son?
only one of you can claim these expenses. if you both do it, you'll have the red flag like my friend last year. her ex did that and they both had to get auditedCan my ex husband and i both claim daycare expenses for our son?
First, who pays for the daycare expenses? Only the person who pays can take the credit.
Second, who does the younger son live with the most? Only the custodial parent can claim the credit. The custodial parent does not have to claim the child as a dependent to take the credit.
If you (or your ex-spouse) are the custodial parent and pay for the daycare expenses, then you can take the credit. Otherwise, you can't.
You paid it, you get it. He better not claim it also or the feds will come calling. What does the divorce settlement say about claiming the kids? Who do the kids live with? Remember, child support is not taxable to you/deductible to him - only spousal support.
You need to talk to a tax pro (NOT H%26amp;R Block - this is beyond them).
Child Care is totally deductible up to a particular dollar amount. I am not certain what it is this year but I believe in the 3-6 k range.
Go to this web page and read about it.
http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/p503.pdf
Just by the information you provided, you both can not claim day care expenses on the same child. Your ex can list alimony paid on his return to reduce his income. You would claim the day care expenses.
I don't have all the details so ask a tax advisor.
CHILD CARE EXPENSES ARE NOT DEDUCTIBLE.
If you havw two boys, then you claim claim one boy as a dependent on your tax return and your ex husband can claim the other boy as a dependent on his tax return. But child care epxneses are not deductible.
only one of you can claim these expenses. if you both do it, you'll have the red flag like my friend last year. her ex did that and they both had to get auditedCan my ex husband and i both claim daycare expenses for our son?
First, who pays for the daycare expenses? Only the person who pays can take the credit.
Second, who does the younger son live with the most? Only the custodial parent can claim the credit. The custodial parent does not have to claim the child as a dependent to take the credit.
If you (or your ex-spouse) are the custodial parent and pay for the daycare expenses, then you can take the credit. Otherwise, you can't.
You paid it, you get it. He better not claim it also or the feds will come calling. What does the divorce settlement say about claiming the kids? Who do the kids live with? Remember, child support is not taxable to you/deductible to him - only spousal support.
You need to talk to a tax pro (NOT H%26amp;R Block - this is beyond them).
Child Care is totally deductible up to a particular dollar amount. I am not certain what it is this year but I believe in the 3-6 k range.
Go to this web page and read about it.
http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/p503.pdf
Just by the information you provided, you both can not claim day care expenses on the same child. Your ex can list alimony paid on his return to reduce his income. You would claim the day care expenses.
I don't have all the details so ask a tax advisor.
CHILD CARE EXPENSES ARE NOT DEDUCTIBLE.
If you havw two boys, then you claim claim one boy as a dependent on your tax return and your ex husband can claim the other boy as a dependent on his tax return. But child care epxneses are not deductible.
Can a woman getting a divorce get any of her husband's social security disability?
A friend of mine just started getting disability and he is going to court soon for a divorce. They have been married 5 years and seperated for the last 2. Is there any way she could get any of his check?Can a woman getting a divorce get any of her husband's social security disability?
No maam,the only people that can take your disability is the US government. IRS,Dept of Education(student loans) etc.Can a woman getting a divorce get any of her husband's social security disability?
That would be a real low life to go after someones disability checks.
But with today's laws who knows
In my state you must be married for 10 years in order for the other person to receive your Social Security.
If they have children and they have not given them away than the children definitely receives Social Security.
Depends on the state. But I think, for the most part, SS Disability is off limits. The person receives it in order to live from day to day.
No maam,the only people that can take your disability is the US government. IRS,Dept of Education(student loans) etc.Can a woman getting a divorce get any of her husband's social security disability?
That would be a real low life to go after someones disability checks.
But with today's laws who knows
In my state you must be married for 10 years in order for the other person to receive your Social Security.
If they have children and they have not given them away than the children definitely receives Social Security.
Depends on the state. But I think, for the most part, SS Disability is off limits. The person receives it in order to live from day to day.
Dr wants me to try clomid to concieve with my husband. Does anyone know if this works?
I was on metformin but i was having major side effects.. Does clomid work better then that or the same??Dr wants me to try clomid to concieve with my husband. Does anyone know if this works?
These two drugs work differently, so it's hard to say which one works better. Metformin works well with women who have PCOS and clomid tends to work better with women who have anovulatory cycles for other (hormonal) reasons. Everyone's body is different and responds differently, so it's really hard to answer your question definitively.
I did, however, conceive my boys after taking clomid.
Good luck and baby dust!Dr wants me to try clomid to concieve with my husband. Does anyone know if this works?
Clomid and Metformin are not used for the same purposes.
Metformin is prescribed to control type 2 diabetes or insulin resistance which often results from PCOS. It can help to regulate menstrual cycles if your fertility issues are linked to one of those conditions. The main way it helps women with PCOS conceive is that PCOS sufferers are often overweight (due to the insulin resistance) and the excess fat cells work to produce more estrogen than is necessary. That extra estrogen makes it to where you cannot have the normal ebb and flow of estrogen in a monthly cycle. Therefore, you never end one cycle and begin the next. This leads to annovulation (not ovulating), and thus you cannot conceive until the situation is remedied. The Metformin helps to regulate the glucose/insulin levels and that causes weight loss in many of the patients, which is required for the estrogen to re-balance and cycles to return to normal.
Clomid, on the other hand, tricks your body into thinking that you don't have enough estrogen, which forces it to go into overtime when producing FSH (follicle stimulating hormone). That makes the egg follicles stored in the ovaries grow and will often (in 80-90% of patients) force ovulation. Obviously you cannot conceive if you are not ovulating. Hence, the new ovulation gives a much better chance for conception.
Many people are prescribed both at the same time. The mixture of the 2 drugs seems to work wonders for some people. In fact, the Metformin is often prescribed with the Clomid even if the usual Metformin-treated illnesses don't exist.
I am currently on my first month of Clomid (50mg cd3-7). I was originally on Metformin and thought to possibly have PCOS but it has since been ruled out. I stopped taking the Metformin for several months, but my OB/GYN requested I go back on it for this month while I'm also taking the Clomid, although I don't have type 2 diabetes, insulin resistance, or PCOS.
Better, worse, or the same is a pretty difficult judgment call on this one. It's not really about if one medication is better than another, it's about if one is better FOR YOU than another. If this is what the doctor thinks will do the trick for you, I'd give it a try. I trust my OB/GYN completely, and I am happily taking what she's prescribed because she's working toward the same goal as me and my husband.
Do be warned: Clomid *can* have some nasty side effects for some people. Others have none at all. I'm on day 2 and have not had a single side effect so far. I'm still waiting!
Good luck in your journey! Lots of sticky baby dust your way! :)
i just did my first round of clomid this cycle i was told to take it cycle day 1-5 to increase chances because studies shown you produce more follicles. but most doctors make you take it days 3-7
my period is due tomorrow i haven't tested but everyone on my message boards says my cycle looks promising
many people have gotton pregnant on clomid hopefully you and i are in that same boat goodluck
feel free to IM me my addy is dawndiva_ttc
im just looking for new friends to share this journey with
These two drugs work differently, so it's hard to say which one works better. Metformin works well with women who have PCOS and clomid tends to work better with women who have anovulatory cycles for other (hormonal) reasons. Everyone's body is different and responds differently, so it's really hard to answer your question definitively.
I did, however, conceive my boys after taking clomid.
Good luck and baby dust!Dr wants me to try clomid to concieve with my husband. Does anyone know if this works?
Clomid and Metformin are not used for the same purposes.
Metformin is prescribed to control type 2 diabetes or insulin resistance which often results from PCOS. It can help to regulate menstrual cycles if your fertility issues are linked to one of those conditions. The main way it helps women with PCOS conceive is that PCOS sufferers are often overweight (due to the insulin resistance) and the excess fat cells work to produce more estrogen than is necessary. That extra estrogen makes it to where you cannot have the normal ebb and flow of estrogen in a monthly cycle. Therefore, you never end one cycle and begin the next. This leads to annovulation (not ovulating), and thus you cannot conceive until the situation is remedied. The Metformin helps to regulate the glucose/insulin levels and that causes weight loss in many of the patients, which is required for the estrogen to re-balance and cycles to return to normal.
Clomid, on the other hand, tricks your body into thinking that you don't have enough estrogen, which forces it to go into overtime when producing FSH (follicle stimulating hormone). That makes the egg follicles stored in the ovaries grow and will often (in 80-90% of patients) force ovulation. Obviously you cannot conceive if you are not ovulating. Hence, the new ovulation gives a much better chance for conception.
Many people are prescribed both at the same time. The mixture of the 2 drugs seems to work wonders for some people. In fact, the Metformin is often prescribed with the Clomid even if the usual Metformin-treated illnesses don't exist.
I am currently on my first month of Clomid (50mg cd3-7). I was originally on Metformin and thought to possibly have PCOS but it has since been ruled out. I stopped taking the Metformin for several months, but my OB/GYN requested I go back on it for this month while I'm also taking the Clomid, although I don't have type 2 diabetes, insulin resistance, or PCOS.
Better, worse, or the same is a pretty difficult judgment call on this one. It's not really about if one medication is better than another, it's about if one is better FOR YOU than another. If this is what the doctor thinks will do the trick for you, I'd give it a try. I trust my OB/GYN completely, and I am happily taking what she's prescribed because she's working toward the same goal as me and my husband.
Do be warned: Clomid *can* have some nasty side effects for some people. Others have none at all. I'm on day 2 and have not had a single side effect so far. I'm still waiting!
Good luck in your journey! Lots of sticky baby dust your way! :)
i just did my first round of clomid this cycle i was told to take it cycle day 1-5 to increase chances because studies shown you produce more follicles. but most doctors make you take it days 3-7
my period is due tomorrow i haven't tested but everyone on my message boards says my cycle looks promising
many people have gotton pregnant on clomid hopefully you and i are in that same boat goodluck
feel free to IM me my addy is dawndiva_ttc
im just looking for new friends to share this journey with
How do you have a normal sex life when your husband has a fetish?
My husband has a slip fetish. It is to the point that we cannot have sex without a slip being involved in some way. I was okay with this to begin with but it is now getting to a point where it is making me feel bad-- like the fetish is more important than I am.
Does anyone else have a relationship with someone who has a fetish? How do you make it work?How do you have a normal sex life when your husband has a fetish?
You're going to have to tell him to calm down a bit on his fetish. It's just unhealthy to always have to have your fetish. Remind him that sex is about pleasing the other person, and putting their needs first. It shouldn't be a one sided issue.
It's great that you would entertain his desires, that's what it's all about. But he needs to be aware that it shouldn't be an every day thing, especially if you're not as in to it as he is.
My ex wife cheated on me a lot of times. Then I took her back some time later for a while. She became obsessed with like bondage S%26amp;M kind of things and pain and masicism. It was really too much for me, and it along with a combination of other things contributed to our failure. But, I think the most important thing is to think of the other person and not be selfish when it comes to sex. She was like a man, always about her needs. That's just not healthy, and it makes the other person feel bad.
You should talk to him. Maybe get some books or reading material, for the both of you to learn different ways to ';come together';, to speak on the sexuality side of your relationship.
Good luck.How do you have a normal sex life when your husband has a fetish?
I had a friend in a similar situation, and there's only one thing that works: you have to communicate this with him. (In her case, it was a wig...).
The fetish isn't more important than you are, of course, but that isn't the issue. The issue is that parts of your sex life are making you uncomfortable and that is never right.
I realize it's not an easy convo, but maybe start out by telling him what you do like and then thinking of options that don't involve a slip. But at some point, I think you need to state exactly what you typed here.
I would like my wife to wear thigh highs and stilettos all the time but I know that's not realistic. Having her completely naked is just fine. You need to tell your husband that you have a fetish as well and it doesn't involve a slip. Tell him what you want to wear or what you don't want to wear.
You do what I do...you participate in it 80% of the time. But now and then you try to throw in something else...a fantasy of your own.
An article of clothing is easy...you don't have to pay attention to it. If it is a full blown fantasy that involves role play then it may get boring replaying the same scenerio over and over.
fetish guys are ALL about the fetish. they never see NOT doing the fetish sometimes is also a nice change of pace.
tell him tonight the slip's involvement will be keeping the inside of the slip drawer warm.
and tough sh*t if he doesn't like it normal every now and then.
I think that's an easy one, if all he wants is for you to wear a slip. My husband is worse, I wouldn't call his a fetish, more like a fanatic way of thinking. How I deal with it, I avoid having sex with him. If I could fix my sex life by just wearing a slip, I would.
That is someone you married and if he like slips then give him slips, wrap one around your head too and jump on the bed like a crazed slip woman lol....
Suggest that HE wear the slip. Every time.
You married him that way. Get over it.
make ';his'; night twice a month... I believe that's enough...
You need to see that you husband gets long term treatment with a mental health professional. Seek a psychiatrist, a behavior therapist, just find a clinician who is experienced in successfully treating this area. This is the only way for you to make this work.
Does anyone else have a relationship with someone who has a fetish? How do you make it work?How do you have a normal sex life when your husband has a fetish?
You're going to have to tell him to calm down a bit on his fetish. It's just unhealthy to always have to have your fetish. Remind him that sex is about pleasing the other person, and putting their needs first. It shouldn't be a one sided issue.
It's great that you would entertain his desires, that's what it's all about. But he needs to be aware that it shouldn't be an every day thing, especially if you're not as in to it as he is.
My ex wife cheated on me a lot of times. Then I took her back some time later for a while. She became obsessed with like bondage S%26amp;M kind of things and pain and masicism. It was really too much for me, and it along with a combination of other things contributed to our failure. But, I think the most important thing is to think of the other person and not be selfish when it comes to sex. She was like a man, always about her needs. That's just not healthy, and it makes the other person feel bad.
You should talk to him. Maybe get some books or reading material, for the both of you to learn different ways to ';come together';, to speak on the sexuality side of your relationship.
Good luck.How do you have a normal sex life when your husband has a fetish?
I had a friend in a similar situation, and there's only one thing that works: you have to communicate this with him. (In her case, it was a wig...).
The fetish isn't more important than you are, of course, but that isn't the issue. The issue is that parts of your sex life are making you uncomfortable and that is never right.
I realize it's not an easy convo, but maybe start out by telling him what you do like and then thinking of options that don't involve a slip. But at some point, I think you need to state exactly what you typed here.
I would like my wife to wear thigh highs and stilettos all the time but I know that's not realistic. Having her completely naked is just fine. You need to tell your husband that you have a fetish as well and it doesn't involve a slip. Tell him what you want to wear or what you don't want to wear.
You do what I do...you participate in it 80% of the time. But now and then you try to throw in something else...a fantasy of your own.
An article of clothing is easy...you don't have to pay attention to it. If it is a full blown fantasy that involves role play then it may get boring replaying the same scenerio over and over.
fetish guys are ALL about the fetish. they never see NOT doing the fetish sometimes is also a nice change of pace.
tell him tonight the slip's involvement will be keeping the inside of the slip drawer warm.
and tough sh*t if he doesn't like it normal every now and then.
I think that's an easy one, if all he wants is for you to wear a slip. My husband is worse, I wouldn't call his a fetish, more like a fanatic way of thinking. How I deal with it, I avoid having sex with him. If I could fix my sex life by just wearing a slip, I would.
That is someone you married and if he like slips then give him slips, wrap one around your head too and jump on the bed like a crazed slip woman lol....
Suggest that HE wear the slip. Every time.
You married him that way. Get over it.
make ';his'; night twice a month... I believe that's enough...
You need to see that you husband gets long term treatment with a mental health professional. Seek a psychiatrist, a behavior therapist, just find a clinician who is experienced in successfully treating this area. This is the only way for you to make this work.
How do I set up the blue tooth on my husband's GZ1 Type S cell phone?
We have lost the book and it asks for an access code?How do I set up the blue tooth on my husband's GZ1 Type S cell phone?
call customer service for the carrier.sheer makeup lips
call customer service for the carrier.
Can my ex husband and i both claim daycare expenses for our son?
We have two boys and I claim one and he claims the other. I have been claiming my younger son and his daycare expenses. My ex just asked the daycare for a tax receipt. He told me he puts both sons on his taxes and marks one non-dependant but still puts the daycare expense for him. Can he do that? I thought only one of us can claim it, and that would be me. Advice please.Can my ex husband and i both claim daycare expenses for our son?
only one of you can claim these expenses. if you both do it, you'll have the red flag like my friend last year. her ex did that and they both had to get auditedCan my ex husband and i both claim daycare expenses for our son?
First, who pays for the daycare expenses? Only the person who pays can take the credit.
Second, who does the younger son live with the most? Only the custodial parent can claim the credit. The custodial parent does not have to claim the child as a dependent to take the credit.
If you (or your ex-spouse) are the custodial parent and pay for the daycare expenses, then you can take the credit. Otherwise, you can't.
You paid it, you get it. He better not claim it also or the feds will come calling. What does the divorce settlement say about claiming the kids? Who do the kids live with? Remember, child support is not taxable to you/deductible to him - only spousal support.
You need to talk to a tax pro (NOT H%26amp;R Block - this is beyond them).
Child Care is totally deductible up to a particular dollar amount. I am not certain what it is this year but I believe in the 3-6 k range.
Go to this web page and read about it.
http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/p503.pdf
Just by the information you provided, you both can not claim day care expenses on the same child. Your ex can list alimony paid on his return to reduce his income. You would claim the day care expenses.
I don't have all the details so ask a tax advisor.
CHILD CARE EXPENSES ARE NOT DEDUCTIBLE.
If you havw two boys, then you claim claim one boy as a dependent on your tax return and your ex husband can claim the other boy as a dependent on his tax return. But child care epxneses are not deductible.
only one of you can claim these expenses. if you both do it, you'll have the red flag like my friend last year. her ex did that and they both had to get auditedCan my ex husband and i both claim daycare expenses for our son?
First, who pays for the daycare expenses? Only the person who pays can take the credit.
Second, who does the younger son live with the most? Only the custodial parent can claim the credit. The custodial parent does not have to claim the child as a dependent to take the credit.
If you (or your ex-spouse) are the custodial parent and pay for the daycare expenses, then you can take the credit. Otherwise, you can't.
You paid it, you get it. He better not claim it also or the feds will come calling. What does the divorce settlement say about claiming the kids? Who do the kids live with? Remember, child support is not taxable to you/deductible to him - only spousal support.
You need to talk to a tax pro (NOT H%26amp;R Block - this is beyond them).
Child Care is totally deductible up to a particular dollar amount. I am not certain what it is this year but I believe in the 3-6 k range.
Go to this web page and read about it.
http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/p503.pdf
Just by the information you provided, you both can not claim day care expenses on the same child. Your ex can list alimony paid on his return to reduce his income. You would claim the day care expenses.
I don't have all the details so ask a tax advisor.
CHILD CARE EXPENSES ARE NOT DEDUCTIBLE.
If you havw two boys, then you claim claim one boy as a dependent on your tax return and your ex husband can claim the other boy as a dependent on his tax return. But child care epxneses are not deductible.
Can a woman getting a divorce get any of her husband's social security disability?
A friend of mine just started getting disability and he is going to court soon for a divorce. They have been married 5 years and seperated for the last 2. Is there any way she could get any of his check?Can a woman getting a divorce get any of her husband's social security disability?
No maam,the only people that can take your disability is the US government. IRS,Dept of Education(student loans) etc.Can a woman getting a divorce get any of her husband's social security disability?
That would be a real low life to go after someones disability checks.
But with today's laws who knows
In my state you must be married for 10 years in order for the other person to receive your Social Security.
If they have children and they have not given them away than the children definitely receives Social Security.
Depends on the state. But I think, for the most part, SS Disability is off limits. The person receives it in order to live from day to day.
No maam,the only people that can take your disability is the US government. IRS,Dept of Education(student loans) etc.Can a woman getting a divorce get any of her husband's social security disability?
That would be a real low life to go after someones disability checks.
But with today's laws who knows
In my state you must be married for 10 years in order for the other person to receive your Social Security.
If they have children and they have not given them away than the children definitely receives Social Security.
Depends on the state. But I think, for the most part, SS Disability is off limits. The person receives it in order to live from day to day.
Dr wants me to try clomid to concieve with my husband. Does anyone know if this works?
I was on metformin but i was having major side effects.. Does clomid work better then that or the same??Dr wants me to try clomid to concieve with my husband. Does anyone know if this works?
These two drugs work differently, so it's hard to say which one works better. Metformin works well with women who have PCOS and clomid tends to work better with women who have anovulatory cycles for other (hormonal) reasons. Everyone's body is different and responds differently, so it's really hard to answer your question definitively.
I did, however, conceive my boys after taking clomid.
Good luck and baby dust!Dr wants me to try clomid to concieve with my husband. Does anyone know if this works?
Clomid and Metformin are not used for the same purposes.
Metformin is prescribed to control type 2 diabetes or insulin resistance which often results from PCOS. It can help to regulate menstrual cycles if your fertility issues are linked to one of those conditions. The main way it helps women with PCOS conceive is that PCOS sufferers are often overweight (due to the insulin resistance) and the excess fat cells work to produce more estrogen than is necessary. That extra estrogen makes it to where you cannot have the normal ebb and flow of estrogen in a monthly cycle. Therefore, you never end one cycle and begin the next. This leads to annovulation (not ovulating), and thus you cannot conceive until the situation is remedied. The Metformin helps to regulate the glucose/insulin levels and that causes weight loss in many of the patients, which is required for the estrogen to re-balance and cycles to return to normal.
Clomid, on the other hand, tricks your body into thinking that you don't have enough estrogen, which forces it to go into overtime when producing FSH (follicle stimulating hormone). That makes the egg follicles stored in the ovaries grow and will often (in 80-90% of patients) force ovulation. Obviously you cannot conceive if you are not ovulating. Hence, the new ovulation gives a much better chance for conception.
Many people are prescribed both at the same time. The mixture of the 2 drugs seems to work wonders for some people. In fact, the Metformin is often prescribed with the Clomid even if the usual Metformin-treated illnesses don't exist.
I am currently on my first month of Clomid (50mg cd3-7). I was originally on Metformin and thought to possibly have PCOS but it has since been ruled out. I stopped taking the Metformin for several months, but my OB/GYN requested I go back on it for this month while I'm also taking the Clomid, although I don't have type 2 diabetes, insulin resistance, or PCOS.
Better, worse, or the same is a pretty difficult judgment call on this one. It's not really about if one medication is better than another, it's about if one is better FOR YOU than another. If this is what the doctor thinks will do the trick for you, I'd give it a try. I trust my OB/GYN completely, and I am happily taking what she's prescribed because she's working toward the same goal as me and my husband.
Do be warned: Clomid *can* have some nasty side effects for some people. Others have none at all. I'm on day 2 and have not had a single side effect so far. I'm still waiting!
Good luck in your journey! Lots of sticky baby dust your way! :)
i just did my first round of clomid this cycle i was told to take it cycle day 1-5 to increase chances because studies shown you produce more follicles. but most doctors make you take it days 3-7
my period is due tomorrow i haven't tested but everyone on my message boards says my cycle looks promising
many people have gotton pregnant on clomid hopefully you and i are in that same boat goodluck
feel free to IM me my addy is dawndiva_ttc
im just looking for new friends to share this journey with
These two drugs work differently, so it's hard to say which one works better. Metformin works well with women who have PCOS and clomid tends to work better with women who have anovulatory cycles for other (hormonal) reasons. Everyone's body is different and responds differently, so it's really hard to answer your question definitively.
I did, however, conceive my boys after taking clomid.
Good luck and baby dust!Dr wants me to try clomid to concieve with my husband. Does anyone know if this works?
Clomid and Metformin are not used for the same purposes.
Metformin is prescribed to control type 2 diabetes or insulin resistance which often results from PCOS. It can help to regulate menstrual cycles if your fertility issues are linked to one of those conditions. The main way it helps women with PCOS conceive is that PCOS sufferers are often overweight (due to the insulin resistance) and the excess fat cells work to produce more estrogen than is necessary. That extra estrogen makes it to where you cannot have the normal ebb and flow of estrogen in a monthly cycle. Therefore, you never end one cycle and begin the next. This leads to annovulation (not ovulating), and thus you cannot conceive until the situation is remedied. The Metformin helps to regulate the glucose/insulin levels and that causes weight loss in many of the patients, which is required for the estrogen to re-balance and cycles to return to normal.
Clomid, on the other hand, tricks your body into thinking that you don't have enough estrogen, which forces it to go into overtime when producing FSH (follicle stimulating hormone). That makes the egg follicles stored in the ovaries grow and will often (in 80-90% of patients) force ovulation. Obviously you cannot conceive if you are not ovulating. Hence, the new ovulation gives a much better chance for conception.
Many people are prescribed both at the same time. The mixture of the 2 drugs seems to work wonders for some people. In fact, the Metformin is often prescribed with the Clomid even if the usual Metformin-treated illnesses don't exist.
I am currently on my first month of Clomid (50mg cd3-7). I was originally on Metformin and thought to possibly have PCOS but it has since been ruled out. I stopped taking the Metformin for several months, but my OB/GYN requested I go back on it for this month while I'm also taking the Clomid, although I don't have type 2 diabetes, insulin resistance, or PCOS.
Better, worse, or the same is a pretty difficult judgment call on this one. It's not really about if one medication is better than another, it's about if one is better FOR YOU than another. If this is what the doctor thinks will do the trick for you, I'd give it a try. I trust my OB/GYN completely, and I am happily taking what she's prescribed because she's working toward the same goal as me and my husband.
Do be warned: Clomid *can* have some nasty side effects for some people. Others have none at all. I'm on day 2 and have not had a single side effect so far. I'm still waiting!
Good luck in your journey! Lots of sticky baby dust your way! :)
i just did my first round of clomid this cycle i was told to take it cycle day 1-5 to increase chances because studies shown you produce more follicles. but most doctors make you take it days 3-7
my period is due tomorrow i haven't tested but everyone on my message boards says my cycle looks promising
many people have gotton pregnant on clomid hopefully you and i are in that same boat goodluck
feel free to IM me my addy is dawndiva_ttc
im just looking for new friends to share this journey with
How can a husband become to pushy and easy?
My wife says she can tell when i am waiting for sex or thinking about i and that i smuther her too much. Is it true that women want what they cant have? Is it true that the more a husband backs off the more the wife wants him? what is it that really keeps married people happy after 20 years and why do they divorce after so long........How can a husband become to pushy and easy?
I think a lot of women use sex as a reward or withhold it as punishment, when in fact a gentlemen that was a good friend of the family was married for 48 years, he told me that him and his wife never combined the two, their sex life(altho they were completely monogamous to each other)was separate from their marriage. I thought this was very interesting, how could this be? He said no matter what happened in their day or what happened with each other, they still kept a passion for one another in the bedroom because they were two different people there. I don't know how to get my future one on board for this type of outlook but I like the thought of it. How can a husband become to pushy and easy?
No, that is not true. But, I can agree that when a man is constantly wanting sex from a woman it can begin to feel like that is what you are in the relationship for and that is the only reason and it can begin to be a turn off. It is hard if you are always interested in sex too because when you try to show that you are interested in other parts of your wife (what she likes to do and just hanging out together) she begins to think you have an agenda and just want to have sex.
I would talk to her and let her know that you apologize for begin so aggressive about sex but not aggressive about the other parts of her. Let her know that you want to begin to new experiences with her and do activities together.
What keeps a couple together is communication, respect and commitment. She's communicating that you're being clingy, so back up a little bit. I can tell when my husband wants sex without him ever saying anything. Women's intuition perhaps... But at a time when I don't want it and he's being pushy about it, it is extremely annoying. Wouldn't it annoy you if the situation was reversed?
I would not agree that women want what they cannot have. A woman usually refuses sex because her husband has pissed her off
Try mopping the kitchen floor and taking the trash out, and watch her jump all over you...
I think a lot of women use sex as a reward or withhold it as punishment, when in fact a gentlemen that was a good friend of the family was married for 48 years, he told me that him and his wife never combined the two, their sex life(altho they were completely monogamous to each other)was separate from their marriage. I thought this was very interesting, how could this be? He said no matter what happened in their day or what happened with each other, they still kept a passion for one another in the bedroom because they were two different people there. I don't know how to get my future one on board for this type of outlook but I like the thought of it. How can a husband become to pushy and easy?
No, that is not true. But, I can agree that when a man is constantly wanting sex from a woman it can begin to feel like that is what you are in the relationship for and that is the only reason and it can begin to be a turn off. It is hard if you are always interested in sex too because when you try to show that you are interested in other parts of your wife (what she likes to do and just hanging out together) she begins to think you have an agenda and just want to have sex.
I would talk to her and let her know that you apologize for begin so aggressive about sex but not aggressive about the other parts of her. Let her know that you want to begin to new experiences with her and do activities together.
What keeps a couple together is communication, respect and commitment. She's communicating that you're being clingy, so back up a little bit. I can tell when my husband wants sex without him ever saying anything. Women's intuition perhaps... But at a time when I don't want it and he's being pushy about it, it is extremely annoying. Wouldn't it annoy you if the situation was reversed?
I would not agree that women want what they cannot have. A woman usually refuses sex because her husband has pissed her off
Try mopping the kitchen floor and taking the trash out, and watch her jump all over you...
Should I say something to the coworker who sent my husband a nude photo?
The new admin assistant at my husband's office emailed a personal photo of a guy surfer naked, rear view, just to him. My husband surfs. He says he ignored it and nothing's happened since. I finally went to his office and met her. Her looks and manner were very similar to a former coworker. My husband had a friendship with this other woman that crossed the friendship line.
I intend to watch closely here but should I say something to her about the photo? What would be short and to the point?Should I say something to the coworker who sent my husband a nude photo?
Let it alone and handle your distain for the woman through your husband. It sounds like you're diligent about your husbands co-workers so the chance of her doing anything with your husband will be slim.Should I say something to the coworker who sent my husband a nude photo?
Oh for God's sake! The woman sent him a pic of some dude surfing naked. A shot from ';behind'; so to speak. This is something that might be on a Hallmark greeting card. He's a SURFER! It was obviously meant as a JOKE alluding to his hobby. Your problem is not with the woman. Your problem is with a husband you can't trust!
Super sweetly say ';Oh hi it's so nice to meet you, well just so you know next time you get the urge to send some nudies of someone to my husband, send them to me first that way we can avoid awkward conversations like these :) oh and by the way if anything goes on between you two, I will personally rip your organs out through your nose.'; curtsy and walk away like you were just talking about cake.
Maybe it's not your place to say something to her. If your husband was offended by the photo, he can either say something to her himself or report her to HR for sexual harassment.
Forward the e-mail to the corporate office and leave your cheating husband.
OMG. How unprofessional. I think I would let her know that it is sexual harassment to send photo's of that sort to your husband.
Say something only if your husband is into guys, otherwise let it go.
maybe the administrative assistant knows that your husband is gay, and you don't.
Your husband needs to be the one to say something.
And why was she sending him pictures of a naked dude?
Please respect the fact that my husband and I are married .
I intend to watch closely here but should I say something to her about the photo? What would be short and to the point?Should I say something to the coworker who sent my husband a nude photo?
Let it alone and handle your distain for the woman through your husband. It sounds like you're diligent about your husbands co-workers so the chance of her doing anything with your husband will be slim.Should I say something to the coworker who sent my husband a nude photo?
Oh for God's sake! The woman sent him a pic of some dude surfing naked. A shot from ';behind'; so to speak. This is something that might be on a Hallmark greeting card. He's a SURFER! It was obviously meant as a JOKE alluding to his hobby. Your problem is not with the woman. Your problem is with a husband you can't trust!
Super sweetly say ';Oh hi it's so nice to meet you, well just so you know next time you get the urge to send some nudies of someone to my husband, send them to me first that way we can avoid awkward conversations like these :) oh and by the way if anything goes on between you two, I will personally rip your organs out through your nose.'; curtsy and walk away like you were just talking about cake.
Maybe it's not your place to say something to her. If your husband was offended by the photo, he can either say something to her himself or report her to HR for sexual harassment.
Forward the e-mail to the corporate office and leave your cheating husband.
OMG. How unprofessional. I think I would let her know that it is sexual harassment to send photo's of that sort to your husband.
Say something only if your husband is into guys, otherwise let it go.
maybe the administrative assistant knows that your husband is gay, and you don't.
Your husband needs to be the one to say something.
And why was she sending him pictures of a naked dude?
Please respect the fact that my husband and I are married .
Where can my husband get into the Alzheimer Antibody research study?
Phase 3 of a study of treaatment with antibodies which naturally produced in the body appears to halt the memory robging progression of Alzheimer's disease. I want my husband to be part of this study.Where can my husband get into the Alzheimer Antibody research study?
I don't know about that particular study, but if you are a member of your local chapter of the Alzheimer's Association, they send out periodic newsletters which often have information on local studies. My dad is involved with several studies at Yale University, which luckily is only about 20 minutes away. Other participants drive hours to get there.
Most studies are spread out over the US, but you really didn't provide enough information for me to even look up that study. The name of the drug being tested, or the name of any university or college hosting the study would help. You can try the Alzheimer's site to start.sheer makeup lips
I don't know about that particular study, but if you are a member of your local chapter of the Alzheimer's Association, they send out periodic newsletters which often have information on local studies. My dad is involved with several studies at Yale University, which luckily is only about 20 minutes away. Other participants drive hours to get there.
Most studies are spread out over the US, but you really didn't provide enough information for me to even look up that study. The name of the drug being tested, or the name of any university or college hosting the study would help. You can try the Alzheimer's site to start.
Where should my husband and I go for vacation this year?
We are in our early 40's and although we aren't party animals we like to have fun and do all kinds of things. We have been to places like Vegas, NY, Virginia Beach, Branson, LA, Niagara Falls and various amusement parks throughout the US. We want to stay in the US. Help please!Where should my husband and I go for vacation this year?
Banff National Park, Alberta, Canada
Banff National Park, Alberta, Canada
Need Help with a scrapbooking page title for pic of Husband with new Garage toolbox?
I have 3 pics one of him standing beside it, one of him looking in it, and one of him opening the drawers. This toolbox is huge 7ft tall 4 ft wide and 3ft deep. He has waited forever for it.
Anyways I need a good page title for a scrapbook page.
All help will be greatly appreciated.Need Help with a scrapbooking page title for pic of Husband with new Garage toolbox?
How about:
(From the song, ';At Last';:)
At last, my love has come along! or
No, honey, your scrapbooking supplies will not fit in here! or
Now all I have to do is fill it up! or
The mountain finally came to ____________ (your hubby's name) or
The 'Hulk' saves the day!Need Help with a scrapbooking page title for pic of Husband with new Garage toolbox?
';The biggest difference between men and boys is nothing more than the price of their toys.'; That would be cute running all around the edge of the page.
';My big boy and his new toy'; could work.
';Patience rewarded'; might be appropriate, since he waited for it.
';The beast that ate ________'; (fill in his name.)
Hopefully these will spur your creativity and you'll come up with a good one.
perhaps something that plays on the ';honey-do'; list idea? what kind of toolbox is it (general, automotive, etc)?
how 'bout: Boys love their toys, boys and their toys, mr. fix-it, or finally (since he's waited for so long).
happy scrappin
Tool Time
the Great Wall of Tools
The Temple of Tools (Indiana Jones style ;)
Not Tim the Toolman.....but close to it!
Anyways I need a good page title for a scrapbook page.
All help will be greatly appreciated.Need Help with a scrapbooking page title for pic of Husband with new Garage toolbox?
How about:
(From the song, ';At Last';:)
At last, my love has come along! or
No, honey, your scrapbooking supplies will not fit in here! or
Now all I have to do is fill it up! or
The mountain finally came to ____________ (your hubby's name) or
The 'Hulk' saves the day!Need Help with a scrapbooking page title for pic of Husband with new Garage toolbox?
';The biggest difference between men and boys is nothing more than the price of their toys.'; That would be cute running all around the edge of the page.
';My big boy and his new toy'; could work.
';Patience rewarded'; might be appropriate, since he waited for it.
';The beast that ate ________'; (fill in his name.)
Hopefully these will spur your creativity and you'll come up with a good one.
perhaps something that plays on the ';honey-do'; list idea? what kind of toolbox is it (general, automotive, etc)?
how 'bout: Boys love their toys, boys and their toys, mr. fix-it, or finally (since he's waited for so long).
happy scrappin
Tool Time
the Great Wall of Tools
The Temple of Tools (Indiana Jones style ;)
Not Tim the Toolman.....but close to it!
I need a good depression quote to send to my husband?
I am having a really big time break down and need to get a quote from a disturbed or distressed or stressed person to help him know I am just need some time to think on my own. I have been through a lot and the only way I can cope is be being alone sometimes just to cry.
I can't explain it and he sometimes gets quotes. Are there any?
I can't even think right now.I need a good depression quote to send to my husband?
just be honest
tell him u want alone time to sort out your thoughts and feelings and get back on trackI need a good depression quote to send to my husband?
Here are some that have helped me during depressed times:
We can learn more from sorrow than from laughter.
Tough times teach trust.
A hurting person needs a helping hand, not an accusing finger.
The soul could have no rainbow is the eyes had no tears.
You often take out your frustrations on the people you love the most.
Hurt people hurt people.
Where there seems to be no way, God can make a way.
God uses our setbacks to move us ahead.
http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/author鈥?/a>
Quotes by poe. He was a pretty depressed person. There's bound to be something that helps you on that page.
I can't explain it and he sometimes gets quotes. Are there any?
I can't even think right now.I need a good depression quote to send to my husband?
just be honest
tell him u want alone time to sort out your thoughts and feelings and get back on trackI need a good depression quote to send to my husband?
Here are some that have helped me during depressed times:
We can learn more from sorrow than from laughter.
Tough times teach trust.
A hurting person needs a helping hand, not an accusing finger.
The soul could have no rainbow is the eyes had no tears.
You often take out your frustrations on the people you love the most.
Hurt people hurt people.
Where there seems to be no way, God can make a way.
God uses our setbacks to move us ahead.
http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/author鈥?/a>
Quotes by poe. He was a pretty depressed person. There's bound to be something that helps you on that page.
What is the disadvantages for me as a main driver of a new car that is in my husband's name only?
I am not happy that I am not a co-owner of the car. The car dealer said it doesn't matter who is the owner because of the common law, but I feel very sad that I do not actually own the car that I drive.What is the disadvantages for me as a main driver of a new car that is in my husband's name only?
I think that if you feel that way, it's not good. I could be wrong, but it seems to me like there could be an element of feminism here, wanting to be independent or in control, somehow. Otherwise, I don't know what difference it should make in a really good marriage.
You might want to check with your insurance company, though.What is the disadvantages for me as a main driver of a new car that is in my husband's name only?
YOUR INSURANCE MAY NOT BE COVERED YOU BETTER GET IT IN BOTH NAMES AND COMMON LAW WELL TAKE IT AND THROW IT OUT THE WINDOW YOUR GOING TO BE THE ONE THATS HIT WITH THE FINES NOT HIM
LIKE I SAY TIS BEST TO GET IT IN BOTH NAMES
OR AT LEAST MR %26amp; MRS
My car is technically not in my name due to insurance reasons and after 5 years I have never had a single issue. I guess if you got a divorce then it might suck but otherwise there is no problem.
Doesn't really matter ..what ever he owns is half yours under the law....
Take it up with your husband, not the salesman.
Do you have any rights in the mariage? Does he care for you at all? If he knew you wanted to own the car, and it made you sad not to own the car he would put our name on the title if he loved you.
it doesn't matter but if it does to you then refinance it in your name only?
I think that if you feel that way, it's not good. I could be wrong, but it seems to me like there could be an element of feminism here, wanting to be independent or in control, somehow. Otherwise, I don't know what difference it should make in a really good marriage.
You might want to check with your insurance company, though.What is the disadvantages for me as a main driver of a new car that is in my husband's name only?
YOUR INSURANCE MAY NOT BE COVERED YOU BETTER GET IT IN BOTH NAMES AND COMMON LAW WELL TAKE IT AND THROW IT OUT THE WINDOW YOUR GOING TO BE THE ONE THATS HIT WITH THE FINES NOT HIM
LIKE I SAY TIS BEST TO GET IT IN BOTH NAMES
OR AT LEAST MR %26amp; MRS
My car is technically not in my name due to insurance reasons and after 5 years I have never had a single issue. I guess if you got a divorce then it might suck but otherwise there is no problem.
Doesn't really matter ..what ever he owns is half yours under the law....
Take it up with your husband, not the salesman.
Do you have any rights in the mariage? Does he care for you at all? If he knew you wanted to own the car, and it made you sad not to own the car he would put our name on the title if he loved you.
it doesn't matter but if it does to you then refinance it in your name only?
What is an example of a movie where a boyfriend/husband loses his memory of his girlfriend?
Hi i cant think of a movie where like a curse is placed on a couple , and like a boyfriend forgets who he was in love with. Any IdeasWhat is an example of a movie where a boyfriend/husband loses his memory of his girlfriend?
1-Random Harvest
2-The Ghost and Mrs. MuirWhat is an example of a movie where a boyfriend/husband loses his memory of his girlfriend?
Etermal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (2004)
starring Jim Carrey, Kate Winslet, Elijah Wood, Kirsten Dunst
IMDb synopsis:
This is the story of a guy, Joel, who discovers that his long-time girlfriend, Clementine, has undergone a psychiatrist's experimental procedure in which all of her memory of Joel is removed, after the couple has tried for years to get their relationship working fluidly. Frustrated by the idea of still being in love with a woman who doesn't remember their time together, Joel agrees to undergo the procedure as well, to erase his memories of Clementine. The film, which takes place mostly within Joel's mind, follows his memories of Clementine backwards in time as each recent memory is replaced, and the procedure then goes on to the previous one, which is likewise seen, and then erased. Once the process starts, however, Joel realizes he doesn't really want to forget Clementine, so he starts smuggling her away into parts of his memory where she doesn't belong which alters other things about his memories as well.
Here's the movie trailer:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1GiLxkDK8鈥?/a>
In various versions of ';The Snow Queen';, the boy is made to forget about the girl he loves or at least no longer love her. There might be others, but ';Eternal'; simply came to mind first.
50 First Dates is similar, but the girl loses memory of her boyfriend instead.
hmmm...I dont know anything about a curse. but maybe you are thinking of Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind?
Sounds like Love Potion No. 9.
1-Random Harvest
2-The Ghost and Mrs. MuirWhat is an example of a movie where a boyfriend/husband loses his memory of his girlfriend?
Etermal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (2004)
starring Jim Carrey, Kate Winslet, Elijah Wood, Kirsten Dunst
IMDb synopsis:
This is the story of a guy, Joel, who discovers that his long-time girlfriend, Clementine, has undergone a psychiatrist's experimental procedure in which all of her memory of Joel is removed, after the couple has tried for years to get their relationship working fluidly. Frustrated by the idea of still being in love with a woman who doesn't remember their time together, Joel agrees to undergo the procedure as well, to erase his memories of Clementine. The film, which takes place mostly within Joel's mind, follows his memories of Clementine backwards in time as each recent memory is replaced, and the procedure then goes on to the previous one, which is likewise seen, and then erased. Once the process starts, however, Joel realizes he doesn't really want to forget Clementine, so he starts smuggling her away into parts of his memory where she doesn't belong which alters other things about his memories as well.
Here's the movie trailer:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1GiLxkDK8鈥?/a>
In various versions of ';The Snow Queen';, the boy is made to forget about the girl he loves or at least no longer love her. There might be others, but ';Eternal'; simply came to mind first.
50 First Dates is similar, but the girl loses memory of her boyfriend instead.
hmmm...I dont know anything about a curse. but maybe you are thinking of Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind?
Sounds like Love Potion No. 9.
Does the state of Alaska need to file contempt charges and an arrest warrant for Palin and her Husband?
We are a nation of laws, when people like Palin thinks they are above the law they need to be made an example of. You cannot ignore a subpoena all because you don't like it. What example is this showing to our children.
Does the state of Alaska need to file contempt charges and an arrest warrant for Palin and her Husband?
The subpoenas are being disputed and a judge will make the determination as to their validity - until then, no laws have been broken and no subpoenas have been ignored.
Politicians must be held accountable, no argument here, but they must not be subject to innuendos and unsubstantiated allegations that are simply not true and are put out there by their opponents in an effort to simply raise suspicion and discredit them. This is also an example of immoral tactics and mud slinging that we need not show our children.Does the state of Alaska need to file contempt charges and an arrest warrant for Palin and her Husband?
She and her husband need to answer these allegations. We have allowed too much getting around the laws by politicians and celebrities. It will never end until we make a stand to make them accountable. If they are innocent the evidence will bear this out; and if not they should face the consequences. But to delay with the hope of winning the election is outright corrupt. If McCain /Palin are elected and are proved guilty they will escape justice at that point because the new President can pardon them (a President's privilege).
You must have your info wrong. A subpoena was not issued. It was a voluntary questioning session you must be referring to. For the record, if my brother in law tazered my nephew, I would be all over that. I live in Alaska and know the ins and outs of this family feud through friends and family. There is no solid evidence that Sarah herself pressured anyone. Wooten beat her sister, cheated on her, threatened to kill her father, and misused his power as a state trooper. He was also seen drinking while driving his police car. get your facts.
Yes, they should. If this was the average Joe or Jane involved in something like this and they refused to cooperate, there would be hell to pay. So suddenly she and her husband are above the law and choose to hide behind the lie that Obama's people are behind the investigation? Correct me if I'm wrong, but wasn't this investigation going on before she was chosen as a VP candidate?
She never got a subpoena so she's not breaking the law.
** keep your thumbs to yourself. If you don't believe me look it up. She was never officially handed a subpoena and therefore is not breaking any laws by not complying with the investigation.
The Palins are under no legal requirements to respond to a subpoena that does not come from a court of law. It's their choice. And since the panel that issued the subpoena is overtly out to get Sarah, I sure don't blame them in the least.
No she can just delay it. What about the Treason Charges Obama is facing? When he went to Iraq he try to make a deal with the Iraqis not to make a deal of withdrawing the troops until after the election. He wanted to make it a withdraw in 2012, election year?
I think Repubs were giving Dems crap yesterday about turning a question around on and pointing the finger at Bush - much like the first answer to your question does.
We are a nation of laws. If you break them, you must face consequences.
The fact that none have been issued....and the fact that the case is falling apart should be an indication that the the whole thing is a simple, baseless, DNC sponsored attack....
...but I get it, you hate Palin....so why bother with the ';facts';...
I agree with you. She needs to face the charges. But, since she is obviously guilty (why else would she be ignoring the subpoenas?), she's trying to weasel out of it. I guess it makes her the perfect politician, huh?
No subpoenas have been issued. No court has taken a case. Just some pro-Obama state legislators want to launch an investigation.
Kind of like when Bush lied and cost us 4,000 soldiers and 3 trillion dollars and debt. Funny how Clinton was put under oath and Bush wasn't.
Why if he testifies she be found guilty of abusing her power. We can't have that. The truth is like sunlight to a vampire to cons.
She is a republican...they have different rules and laws...
Should they: yes.
Will they: no.
For what exactly? Press the anti drama button, I'm pretty sure the kids will be ok.
SHHHHHH! Be quiet !!!!
If They go after them, what will they do to ME !
Ted Kennedy
I agree with you 100%
You mean like the example of lying under oath such as President Clinton did?sheer makeup lips
Does the state of Alaska need to file contempt charges and an arrest warrant for Palin and her Husband?
The subpoenas are being disputed and a judge will make the determination as to their validity - until then, no laws have been broken and no subpoenas have been ignored.
Politicians must be held accountable, no argument here, but they must not be subject to innuendos and unsubstantiated allegations that are simply not true and are put out there by their opponents in an effort to simply raise suspicion and discredit them. This is also an example of immoral tactics and mud slinging that we need not show our children.Does the state of Alaska need to file contempt charges and an arrest warrant for Palin and her Husband?
She and her husband need to answer these allegations. We have allowed too much getting around the laws by politicians and celebrities. It will never end until we make a stand to make them accountable. If they are innocent the evidence will bear this out; and if not they should face the consequences. But to delay with the hope of winning the election is outright corrupt. If McCain /Palin are elected and are proved guilty they will escape justice at that point because the new President can pardon them (a President's privilege).
You must have your info wrong. A subpoena was not issued. It was a voluntary questioning session you must be referring to. For the record, if my brother in law tazered my nephew, I would be all over that. I live in Alaska and know the ins and outs of this family feud through friends and family. There is no solid evidence that Sarah herself pressured anyone. Wooten beat her sister, cheated on her, threatened to kill her father, and misused his power as a state trooper. He was also seen drinking while driving his police car. get your facts.
Yes, they should. If this was the average Joe or Jane involved in something like this and they refused to cooperate, there would be hell to pay. So suddenly she and her husband are above the law and choose to hide behind the lie that Obama's people are behind the investigation? Correct me if I'm wrong, but wasn't this investigation going on before she was chosen as a VP candidate?
She never got a subpoena so she's not breaking the law.
** keep your thumbs to yourself. If you don't believe me look it up. She was never officially handed a subpoena and therefore is not breaking any laws by not complying with the investigation.
The Palins are under no legal requirements to respond to a subpoena that does not come from a court of law. It's their choice. And since the panel that issued the subpoena is overtly out to get Sarah, I sure don't blame them in the least.
No she can just delay it. What about the Treason Charges Obama is facing? When he went to Iraq he try to make a deal with the Iraqis not to make a deal of withdrawing the troops until after the election. He wanted to make it a withdraw in 2012, election year?
I think Repubs were giving Dems crap yesterday about turning a question around on and pointing the finger at Bush - much like the first answer to your question does.
We are a nation of laws. If you break them, you must face consequences.
The fact that none have been issued....and the fact that the case is falling apart should be an indication that the the whole thing is a simple, baseless, DNC sponsored attack....
...but I get it, you hate Palin....so why bother with the ';facts';...
I agree with you. She needs to face the charges. But, since she is obviously guilty (why else would she be ignoring the subpoenas?), she's trying to weasel out of it. I guess it makes her the perfect politician, huh?
No subpoenas have been issued. No court has taken a case. Just some pro-Obama state legislators want to launch an investigation.
Kind of like when Bush lied and cost us 4,000 soldiers and 3 trillion dollars and debt. Funny how Clinton was put under oath and Bush wasn't.
Why if he testifies she be found guilty of abusing her power. We can't have that. The truth is like sunlight to a vampire to cons.
She is a republican...they have different rules and laws...
Should they: yes.
Will they: no.
For what exactly? Press the anti drama button, I'm pretty sure the kids will be ok.
SHHHHHH! Be quiet !!!!
If They go after them, what will they do to ME !
Ted Kennedy
I agree with you 100%
You mean like the example of lying under oath such as President Clinton did?
Can someone else be the power of attorney over my husband?
Can someone else become the power of attorney over my husband? We have been separate for a little over a year. I know he has a girlfriend and has recently gotten himself into a bit of trouble with the law. She is alot younger than him and I think he is going thru a mid life crisis lol. Do I still have rights over him (ie:Power of Attorney)? Please let me know thanks. Real answers please.Can someone else be the power of attorney over my husband?
yes, i had a friend and he got ss and va pension and he had a lawyer be his power of attorney for a small fee ,,,,,,,Can someone else be the power of attorney over my husband?
Ok to the first part of your question, yes other than the spouse can be power of attorney, and its certainly NOT automatic that a separated spouse would have that responsibility/control.
The power of attorney has to be applied for, and is only allowed in strict circumstances.
But why would you want to become responsible for him if he's already moved on with someone else? The power of attorney HAS to be used in that person's best interest, so you couldn't use it for your own reasons (revenge/pay back/balancing the accounts, etc.), without facing the possibility of criminal charges - fraud, etc. It is that serious.
I'd check with a local legal aid group, Law school, or similar, or your own lawyer before attempting to gain that P. O. A.
Anybody that your husband appoints can be. Its his choice. At all times, whether you are married or not.
2 different kinds.. standard POA... appointed for particular reason,or period of time, like buying selling a property, or whilst the Donor is out of the country. Or Enduring... EPA...ongoing, commences at appointed time.. immediately... or when Donor becomes incapacitated, until Death or is revoked by Donor.
Yes.
yes, i had a friend and he got ss and va pension and he had a lawyer be his power of attorney for a small fee ,,,,,,,Can someone else be the power of attorney over my husband?
Ok to the first part of your question, yes other than the spouse can be power of attorney, and its certainly NOT automatic that a separated spouse would have that responsibility/control.
The power of attorney has to be applied for, and is only allowed in strict circumstances.
But why would you want to become responsible for him if he's already moved on with someone else? The power of attorney HAS to be used in that person's best interest, so you couldn't use it for your own reasons (revenge/pay back/balancing the accounts, etc.), without facing the possibility of criminal charges - fraud, etc. It is that serious.
I'd check with a local legal aid group, Law school, or similar, or your own lawyer before attempting to gain that P. O. A.
Anybody that your husband appoints can be. Its his choice. At all times, whether you are married or not.
2 different kinds.. standard POA... appointed for particular reason,or period of time, like buying selling a property, or whilst the Donor is out of the country. Or Enduring... EPA...ongoing, commences at appointed time.. immediately... or when Donor becomes incapacitated, until Death or is revoked by Donor.
Yes.
Who does my husband complain to about harassment on the job?
My husband had an excused sick day when he had strep throat, and his boss has continually harassed him and humiliated him, even threatening to fire him. His manager thinks his boss is looking for reasons to fire employees to save money because of the economic crisis, since my husband is an excellent employee, and much needed in the company. Does he call OSHA only, or is there some other organization to get in touch with?Who does my husband complain to about harassment on the job?
Talk with H.R. - This would probably not be considered ';harassment'; under federal labor laws.Who does my husband complain to about harassment on the job?
If his company has a Human resources dept contact them and follow all the company rules on the subject. If he goes outside the first question they ask will be, did you follow all the company processes? If he hasn't they will not even talk to him. Be advised what you describe does not necessarily equate to harassment. Sometimes bosses are just pricks.
he should complain to you
';harassed him and humiliated him, even threatening to fire him';
this sounds odd
National Labor Relations Board not OSHA
Since you mention OSHA, I assume this is the US.
In most states, unless you have a contract, you can be fired at any time, without cause. Unless illegal discrimination was at play, no company is required to keep on an employee. This is called ';At Will Employment.';
What's at play here is whether or not the company wants to look like they are firing for cause or not. If they can show that he was dismissed for gross misconduct, he could be defined unemployment benefits. Since the company gets a ';ding'; when someone on their payroll collects unemployment, they might be trying to limit that.
Or, more likely the case, to get him to quit. In which case, no unemployment and no severance (in the company offers).
In the end, if the boss wants to find a reason to fire him, it won't be hard. Even the best employees will have something that can be used against them, need be. But, given that this is likely not what the boss wants (he wants husband to quit), husband should try to shrug it off, keep working, and look for another job on the side.
If there is someone above the boss to appear to, I'd suggest that he do it. If this boss is the owner or CEO, then there may be little that can be done.
Unless it gets into sex or race, harassment can be a difficult thing to deal with from a legal perspective. ';You're a baby for taking the day off'; is a rude comment, but it's not illegal.
Talk with H.R. - This would probably not be considered ';harassment'; under federal labor laws.Who does my husband complain to about harassment on the job?
If his company has a Human resources dept contact them and follow all the company rules on the subject. If he goes outside the first question they ask will be, did you follow all the company processes? If he hasn't they will not even talk to him. Be advised what you describe does not necessarily equate to harassment. Sometimes bosses are just pricks.
he should complain to you
';harassed him and humiliated him, even threatening to fire him';
this sounds odd
National Labor Relations Board not OSHA
Since you mention OSHA, I assume this is the US.
In most states, unless you have a contract, you can be fired at any time, without cause. Unless illegal discrimination was at play, no company is required to keep on an employee. This is called ';At Will Employment.';
What's at play here is whether or not the company wants to look like they are firing for cause or not. If they can show that he was dismissed for gross misconduct, he could be defined unemployment benefits. Since the company gets a ';ding'; when someone on their payroll collects unemployment, they might be trying to limit that.
Or, more likely the case, to get him to quit. In which case, no unemployment and no severance (in the company offers).
In the end, if the boss wants to find a reason to fire him, it won't be hard. Even the best employees will have something that can be used against them, need be. But, given that this is likely not what the boss wants (he wants husband to quit), husband should try to shrug it off, keep working, and look for another job on the side.
If there is someone above the boss to appear to, I'd suggest that he do it. If this boss is the owner or CEO, then there may be little that can be done.
Unless it gets into sex or race, harassment can be a difficult thing to deal with from a legal perspective. ';You're a baby for taking the day off'; is a rude comment, but it's not illegal.
Why was my husband sent to psychologist?
My husband went to the medical examination for a visa and was sent to be interviewed by a psychologist.
Do they think he's crazy or what's happening?Why was my husband sent to psychologist?
that is not standard procedure, you may want to talk to someone there and find out what is going on.Why was my husband sent to psychologist?
Does he have any convictions for driving while intoxicated? The medical examiner may have discovered that drinking has caused him to have some problems. Is that a possibility?
Yes.
Obviously, there were some questions about his mental health raised by the medical doctor.
yes the interviewer
i know interviewers are on the edge of lunacy
Do they think he's crazy or what's happening?Why was my husband sent to psychologist?
that is not standard procedure, you may want to talk to someone there and find out what is going on.Why was my husband sent to psychologist?
Does he have any convictions for driving while intoxicated? The medical examiner may have discovered that drinking has caused him to have some problems. Is that a possibility?
Yes.
Obviously, there were some questions about his mental health raised by the medical doctor.
yes the interviewer
i know interviewers are on the edge of lunacy
Does anybody know which health insurance carriers will accept my husband?
He has 3 herniated discs in his back and has lifetime medical on his back through workers comp. We have supporting documents from workers comp and his lawyer and are being denied health coverage still!!! Do any of you have any advice for us?Does anybody know which health insurance carriers will accept my husband?
You should talk to a local agent and maybe the state insurance department. They may have some ideas for you.
Jared Balis
http://www.utahinsurance.org
http://www.healthinsuranceinutah.comDoes anybody know which health insurance carriers will accept my husband?
My family just couldn't afford the high price of health coverage. We were paying over $20,000 per year, not including deductibles and co-pays. So, we were forced to explore other options. I spent months researching and came up with a company called Ameriplan. They have been in business for 15 years. It is a medical discount company. Sometimes you save up to 80% on medical, dental, vision, prescription, and chiropractic. It starts at 19.99 per month for the whole family it has saved our life!! Everyone is accepted and pays the same fee regardless of health problems. This is the website that I found them at http://www.mybenefitsplus.com/cmcdowell...
It's all in the details with these things.
Please list your state. The options and laws vary widely per state, so there's really no way to help you without that information.
For instance, in the state of Virginia, I know that I could get him approved for at least one product (and possibly a few others.)
You should talk to a local agent and maybe the state insurance department. They may have some ideas for you.
Jared Balis
http://www.utahinsurance.org
http://www.healthinsuranceinutah.comDoes anybody know which health insurance carriers will accept my husband?
My family just couldn't afford the high price of health coverage. We were paying over $20,000 per year, not including deductibles and co-pays. So, we were forced to explore other options. I spent months researching and came up with a company called Ameriplan. They have been in business for 15 years. It is a medical discount company. Sometimes you save up to 80% on medical, dental, vision, prescription, and chiropractic. It starts at 19.99 per month for the whole family it has saved our life!! Everyone is accepted and pays the same fee regardless of health problems. This is the website that I found them at http://www.mybenefitsplus.com/cmcdowell...
It's all in the details with these things.
Please list your state. The options and laws vary widely per state, so there's really no way to help you without that information.
For instance, in the state of Virginia, I know that I could get him approved for at least one product (and possibly a few others.)
Do others think this is innappropriate? My cousin and her husband use the bathroom at home with the door open
They have four children ranging in age from 3-14. l know for the little ones (3%26amp;6) this isn't so bad, but for older children isn't this pretty weird? The oldest is a girl and her father will use the shower or toilet with the door open, and talking to her! l've suggested to my cousin that perhaps with the kids growing up this would be something to think about stopping, but she says it's ok, they're just a close family! Also, it freaks me out that if the 14 yr old is in the bath, either of her parents will go in and speak to her. What do others think?Do others think this is innappropriate? My cousin and her husband use the bathroom at home with the door open
Wow, l can certainly understand your concerns! lt really doesn't sound as if anything 'wrong' is going on, but for a 14 year old girl (l think it's a girl?) to witness her father using the bathroom, and for him to see her and speak to her while she is in the shower is certainly innappropriate. l think the trouble is that a lot of parents don't really respect their children's privacy. l do know that the law (varies from state to state) would most likely frown on what is happening, and states that children of this age must have privacy during personal hygeine routines. While l believe that your body isn't anything to be ashamed of, sadly in this day and age we must be concerned with teaching children protective behaviour, and the idea of their bodies being 'off limits' to anyone else may be difficult for them to understand in a situation like this. However, this is my opinion, if you are really worried perhaps talk to your cousin again?Do others think this is innappropriate? My cousin and her husband use the bathroom at home with the door open
I think it's none of your business. You were raised differently from them. I'm 23 and I always leave the door open. The kids constantly need to use the potty or talk to me while I'm in the shower. There's nothing to be ashamed of, all of us poop and fart, there's nothing surprising about that.
If they were raised in this way...being open about everything, I don't see anything wrong with it. It's what's ';normal'; to them. Just because it's different from how you were raised, doesn't mean it's wrong or weird. Some families don't see nudity or using the bathroom as a private matter...it's just natural. There are families out there who walk around the house nude and they are function perfectly fine. I personally like my privacy.
I remember the panicked advice I used to get when my daughter first arrived: ';never let her out of your sight'; ';never leave her in the bathroom by herself'; ';never, ever leave your child unattended ANYWHERE - even in your own home!';.
Once you start that kind of parenting, it's hard to know when to stop. Hence, doors are left open (is the baby crying?) and children are not left alone in bathtubs (it only takes an inch of water to drown!). I think that kids grow out of it and any day now the 14 year old will demand her privacy.
Maybe this family is simply not self-conscious about their bodies. It doesn't sound like there's any incest or anything like that going on (which would definitely be innapproprate!)... just people who don't close the bathroom door.
Nudity is not necessarily innappropriate. (Would you say that nudists are innappropriate?) It may be something that is not for everyone, but I don't think nudity in and of itself is innappropriate.
i don't see the problem. its just bathroom usage not a sexual playground. speaking to someone threw a closed/concealed shower curtain hardly suggests inappropriate behavior. i really don't see how even a concern about nudity would be an issue.my bathroom door is always open and i couldn't tell you a time anyone in my house saw me naked b/c i used the bathroom, or i have seen them for that matter.
I think the 14-yr old should be able to lock the door if she so chooses... however, you could possibly be leaving some details out. Is it the only bathroom in the house? In that case, locking the door (at least during a shower/bath) simply isn't an option with a 3-yr old in the house... the bladder control simply isn't developed enough to wait it out.
If it doesn't bother her... why should it bother you?
Yuck!!!! I wouldn't let my parents anywhere near the bathroom. The door was always locked!!!!! Weird family. A bit conerning actually.
It's not innappropriate for them.
You want us to say this family should change for the sake of you not getting ';freaked out';?
Quit being so self-centered, not everyone has hang-ups about nudity.
Have any of the children told you that the parent's actions bother them? I can't believe you already went there with the mom and now are looking for more ammunition on Answers to bug these people.
If the 14 yo wants her privacy then she can close the door, lock it, or ask her parents to leave.
I'm sure the father is not saying to his kids, ';hey, kids come watch me use the toilet!';
If it freaks you out so much, don't do it in your home. I'm 23 years old, and have no problem with my parents talking to me while I'm in the shower or using the bathroom when I am at their house (They live 25 minutes away from me.). They are my parents, not some freaks looking for a show.
i think that it is kind of weird but if the kids are used to it then it might be fine. but if you suggest foul play then maybe you should report it. i know it is your fam but think of how seeing their mom and dad's goodies on a regular basis might effect their mind.
Were you peeking in on the 14 yr. old?
its ok for the younger ones but at 14 a father should not see his daughter naked
in my oppinon any waymy girls dont see me naked unless they run in when im in the toilet but now they are used to knockingon the door when im in there because i dont like o lockitwhen its justme and the kids incase there is an accident
if they only have 1 toliet though trhey do need it availible for the younger kids 24/7
Are you the only one that is freaked out about this. Is anyone else in the family said they think it is weird..?
If not, then it really is there house and they do as they want.
No it's not inappropriate because it's their family.
You cast your opinion and judgement on whats not happening in your life.
You make wrong what is normal for them, let it be, you are lucky to see how ok they are with the human body and its functions
I think the dad is a perv,walking in on a 14yr old is just plain wrong.
Wow, l can certainly understand your concerns! lt really doesn't sound as if anything 'wrong' is going on, but for a 14 year old girl (l think it's a girl?) to witness her father using the bathroom, and for him to see her and speak to her while she is in the shower is certainly innappropriate. l think the trouble is that a lot of parents don't really respect their children's privacy. l do know that the law (varies from state to state) would most likely frown on what is happening, and states that children of this age must have privacy during personal hygeine routines. While l believe that your body isn't anything to be ashamed of, sadly in this day and age we must be concerned with teaching children protective behaviour, and the idea of their bodies being 'off limits' to anyone else may be difficult for them to understand in a situation like this. However, this is my opinion, if you are really worried perhaps talk to your cousin again?Do others think this is innappropriate? My cousin and her husband use the bathroom at home with the door open
I think it's none of your business. You were raised differently from them. I'm 23 and I always leave the door open. The kids constantly need to use the potty or talk to me while I'm in the shower. There's nothing to be ashamed of, all of us poop and fart, there's nothing surprising about that.
If they were raised in this way...being open about everything, I don't see anything wrong with it. It's what's ';normal'; to them. Just because it's different from how you were raised, doesn't mean it's wrong or weird. Some families don't see nudity or using the bathroom as a private matter...it's just natural. There are families out there who walk around the house nude and they are function perfectly fine. I personally like my privacy.
I remember the panicked advice I used to get when my daughter first arrived: ';never let her out of your sight'; ';never leave her in the bathroom by herself'; ';never, ever leave your child unattended ANYWHERE - even in your own home!';.
Once you start that kind of parenting, it's hard to know when to stop. Hence, doors are left open (is the baby crying?) and children are not left alone in bathtubs (it only takes an inch of water to drown!). I think that kids grow out of it and any day now the 14 year old will demand her privacy.
Maybe this family is simply not self-conscious about their bodies. It doesn't sound like there's any incest or anything like that going on (which would definitely be innapproprate!)... just people who don't close the bathroom door.
Nudity is not necessarily innappropriate. (Would you say that nudists are innappropriate?) It may be something that is not for everyone, but I don't think nudity in and of itself is innappropriate.
i don't see the problem. its just bathroom usage not a sexual playground. speaking to someone threw a closed/concealed shower curtain hardly suggests inappropriate behavior. i really don't see how even a concern about nudity would be an issue.my bathroom door is always open and i couldn't tell you a time anyone in my house saw me naked b/c i used the bathroom, or i have seen them for that matter.
I think the 14-yr old should be able to lock the door if she so chooses... however, you could possibly be leaving some details out. Is it the only bathroom in the house? In that case, locking the door (at least during a shower/bath) simply isn't an option with a 3-yr old in the house... the bladder control simply isn't developed enough to wait it out.
If it doesn't bother her... why should it bother you?
Yuck!!!! I wouldn't let my parents anywhere near the bathroom. The door was always locked!!!!! Weird family. A bit conerning actually.
It's not innappropriate for them.
You want us to say this family should change for the sake of you not getting ';freaked out';?
Quit being so self-centered, not everyone has hang-ups about nudity.
Have any of the children told you that the parent's actions bother them? I can't believe you already went there with the mom and now are looking for more ammunition on Answers to bug these people.
If the 14 yo wants her privacy then she can close the door, lock it, or ask her parents to leave.
I'm sure the father is not saying to his kids, ';hey, kids come watch me use the toilet!';
If it freaks you out so much, don't do it in your home. I'm 23 years old, and have no problem with my parents talking to me while I'm in the shower or using the bathroom when I am at their house (They live 25 minutes away from me.). They are my parents, not some freaks looking for a show.
i think that it is kind of weird but if the kids are used to it then it might be fine. but if you suggest foul play then maybe you should report it. i know it is your fam but think of how seeing their mom and dad's goodies on a regular basis might effect their mind.
Were you peeking in on the 14 yr. old?
its ok for the younger ones but at 14 a father should not see his daughter naked
in my oppinon any waymy girls dont see me naked unless they run in when im in the toilet but now they are used to knockingon the door when im in there because i dont like o lockitwhen its justme and the kids incase there is an accident
if they only have 1 toliet though trhey do need it availible for the younger kids 24/7
Are you the only one that is freaked out about this. Is anyone else in the family said they think it is weird..?
If not, then it really is there house and they do as they want.
No it's not inappropriate because it's their family.
You cast your opinion and judgement on whats not happening in your life.
You make wrong what is normal for them, let it be, you are lucky to see how ok they are with the human body and its functions
I think the dad is a perv,walking in on a 14yr old is just plain wrong.
Is it necessary to expedite my petition by my american husband by filing an excuse letter?
like typhoon in order for me to get to united statest or do i have to wait till the approval of my visa.
I need you answer guys!Is it necessary to expedite my petition by my american husband by filing an excuse letter?
Well, what would your excuse be? It would have to be a pretty good one to get USCIS to work faster. It does take immigration a while to do all the paperwork, but then since you'll be one of over a million legal immigrants this year, that shouldn't be too hard to understand.Is it necessary to expedite my petition by my american husband by filing an excuse letter?
Yes, he must filll in the petition letter (excuse) becuase on Visa the owner of banking account must aprove. If you are the owner then it's not needed. Hope this helps.
Nothing will expedite your application.
Noone is special. Not even the lawyers.
Everyone waits in the queue and learns to be patient.
There is no way to ';expedite'; your petition. Everyone waits his/her turn based on the date it was filed.
Yes u shouls wait for the government approval
No excuses. You have to wait for your visa.sheer makeup lips
I need you answer guys!Is it necessary to expedite my petition by my american husband by filing an excuse letter?
Well, what would your excuse be? It would have to be a pretty good one to get USCIS to work faster. It does take immigration a while to do all the paperwork, but then since you'll be one of over a million legal immigrants this year, that shouldn't be too hard to understand.Is it necessary to expedite my petition by my american husband by filing an excuse letter?
Yes, he must filll in the petition letter (excuse) becuase on Visa the owner of banking account must aprove. If you are the owner then it's not needed. Hope this helps.
Nothing will expedite your application.
Noone is special. Not even the lawyers.
Everyone waits in the queue and learns to be patient.
There is no way to ';expedite'; your petition. Everyone waits his/her turn based on the date it was filed.
Yes u shouls wait for the government approval
No excuses. You have to wait for your visa.
Does anybody know which health insurance carriers will accept my husband?
He has 3 herniated discs in his back and has lifetime medical on his back through workers comp. We have supporting documents from workers comp and his lawyer and are being denied health coverage still!!! Do any of you have any advice for us?Does anybody know which health insurance carriers will accept my husband?
You should talk to a local agent and maybe the state insurance department. They may have some ideas for you.
Jared Balis
http://www.utahinsurance.org
http://www.healthinsuranceinutah.comDoes anybody know which health insurance carriers will accept my husband?
My family just couldn't afford the high price of health coverage. We were paying over $20,000 per year, not including deductibles and co-pays. So, we were forced to explore other options. I spent months researching and came up with a company called Ameriplan. They have been in business for 15 years. It is a medical discount company. Sometimes you save up to 80% on medical, dental, vision, prescription, and chiropractic. It starts at 19.99 per month for the whole family it has saved our life!! Everyone is accepted and pays the same fee regardless of health problems. This is the website that I found them at http://www.mybenefitsplus.com/cmcdowell...
It's all in the details with these things.
Please list your state. The options and laws vary widely per state, so there's really no way to help you without that information.
For instance, in the state of Virginia, I know that I could get him approved for at least one product (and possibly a few others.)
You should talk to a local agent and maybe the state insurance department. They may have some ideas for you.
Jared Balis
http://www.utahinsurance.org
http://www.healthinsuranceinutah.comDoes anybody know which health insurance carriers will accept my husband?
My family just couldn't afford the high price of health coverage. We were paying over $20,000 per year, not including deductibles and co-pays. So, we were forced to explore other options. I spent months researching and came up with a company called Ameriplan. They have been in business for 15 years. It is a medical discount company. Sometimes you save up to 80% on medical, dental, vision, prescription, and chiropractic. It starts at 19.99 per month for the whole family it has saved our life!! Everyone is accepted and pays the same fee regardless of health problems. This is the website that I found them at http://www.mybenefitsplus.com/cmcdowell...
It's all in the details with these things.
Please list your state. The options and laws vary widely per state, so there's really no way to help you without that information.
For instance, in the state of Virginia, I know that I could get him approved for at least one product (and possibly a few others.)
Do others think this is innappropriate? My cousin and her husband use the bathroom at home with the door open
They have four children ranging in age from 3-14. l know for the little ones (3%26amp;6) this isn't so bad, but for older children isn't this pretty weird? The oldest is a girl and her father will use the shower or toilet with the door open, and talking to her! l've suggested to my cousin that perhaps with the kids growing up this would be something to think about stopping, but she says it's ok, they're just a close family! Also, it freaks me out that if the 14 yr old is in the bath, either of her parents will go in and speak to her. What do others think?Do others think this is innappropriate? My cousin and her husband use the bathroom at home with the door open
Wow, l can certainly understand your concerns! lt really doesn't sound as if anything 'wrong' is going on, but for a 14 year old girl (l think it's a girl?) to witness her father using the bathroom, and for him to see her and speak to her while she is in the shower is certainly innappropriate. l think the trouble is that a lot of parents don't really respect their children's privacy. l do know that the law (varies from state to state) would most likely frown on what is happening, and states that children of this age must have privacy during personal hygeine routines. While l believe that your body isn't anything to be ashamed of, sadly in this day and age we must be concerned with teaching children protective behaviour, and the idea of their bodies being 'off limits' to anyone else may be difficult for them to understand in a situation like this. However, this is my opinion, if you are really worried perhaps talk to your cousin again?Do others think this is innappropriate? My cousin and her husband use the bathroom at home with the door open
I think it's none of your business. You were raised differently from them. I'm 23 and I always leave the door open. The kids constantly need to use the potty or talk to me while I'm in the shower. There's nothing to be ashamed of, all of us poop and fart, there's nothing surprising about that.
If they were raised in this way...being open about everything, I don't see anything wrong with it. It's what's ';normal'; to them. Just because it's different from how you were raised, doesn't mean it's wrong or weird. Some families don't see nudity or using the bathroom as a private matter...it's just natural. There are families out there who walk around the house nude and they are function perfectly fine. I personally like my privacy.
I remember the panicked advice I used to get when my daughter first arrived: ';never let her out of your sight'; ';never leave her in the bathroom by herself'; ';never, ever leave your child unattended ANYWHERE - even in your own home!';.
Once you start that kind of parenting, it's hard to know when to stop. Hence, doors are left open (is the baby crying?) and children are not left alone in bathtubs (it only takes an inch of water to drown!). I think that kids grow out of it and any day now the 14 year old will demand her privacy.
Maybe this family is simply not self-conscious about their bodies. It doesn't sound like there's any incest or anything like that going on (which would definitely be innapproprate!)... just people who don't close the bathroom door.
Nudity is not necessarily innappropriate. (Would you say that nudists are innappropriate?) It may be something that is not for everyone, but I don't think nudity in and of itself is innappropriate.
i don't see the problem. its just bathroom usage not a sexual playground. speaking to someone threw a closed/concealed shower curtain hardly suggests inappropriate behavior. i really don't see how even a concern about nudity would be an issue.my bathroom door is always open and i couldn't tell you a time anyone in my house saw me naked b/c i used the bathroom, or i have seen them for that matter.
I think the 14-yr old should be able to lock the door if she so chooses... however, you could possibly be leaving some details out. Is it the only bathroom in the house? In that case, locking the door (at least during a shower/bath) simply isn't an option with a 3-yr old in the house... the bladder control simply isn't developed enough to wait it out.
If it doesn't bother her... why should it bother you?
Yuck!!!! I wouldn't let my parents anywhere near the bathroom. The door was always locked!!!!! Weird family. A bit conerning actually.
It's not innappropriate for them.
You want us to say this family should change for the sake of you not getting ';freaked out';?
Quit being so self-centered, not everyone has hang-ups about nudity.
Have any of the children told you that the parent's actions bother them? I can't believe you already went there with the mom and now are looking for more ammunition on Answers to bug these people.
If the 14 yo wants her privacy then she can close the door, lock it, or ask her parents to leave.
I'm sure the father is not saying to his kids, ';hey, kids come watch me use the toilet!';
If it freaks you out so much, don't do it in your home. I'm 23 years old, and have no problem with my parents talking to me while I'm in the shower or using the bathroom when I am at their house (They live 25 minutes away from me.). They are my parents, not some freaks looking for a show.
i think that it is kind of weird but if the kids are used to it then it might be fine. but if you suggest foul play then maybe you should report it. i know it is your fam but think of how seeing their mom and dad's goodies on a regular basis might effect their mind.
Were you peeking in on the 14 yr. old?
its ok for the younger ones but at 14 a father should not see his daughter naked
in my oppinon any waymy girls dont see me naked unless they run in when im in the toilet but now they are used to knockingon the door when im in there because i dont like o lockitwhen its justme and the kids incase there is an accident
if they only have 1 toliet though trhey do need it availible for the younger kids 24/7
Are you the only one that is freaked out about this. Is anyone else in the family said they think it is weird..?
If not, then it really is there house and they do as they want.
No it's not inappropriate because it's their family.
You cast your opinion and judgement on whats not happening in your life.
You make wrong what is normal for them, let it be, you are lucky to see how ok they are with the human body and its functions
I think the dad is a perv,walking in on a 14yr old is just plain wrong.
Wow, l can certainly understand your concerns! lt really doesn't sound as if anything 'wrong' is going on, but for a 14 year old girl (l think it's a girl?) to witness her father using the bathroom, and for him to see her and speak to her while she is in the shower is certainly innappropriate. l think the trouble is that a lot of parents don't really respect their children's privacy. l do know that the law (varies from state to state) would most likely frown on what is happening, and states that children of this age must have privacy during personal hygeine routines. While l believe that your body isn't anything to be ashamed of, sadly in this day and age we must be concerned with teaching children protective behaviour, and the idea of their bodies being 'off limits' to anyone else may be difficult for them to understand in a situation like this. However, this is my opinion, if you are really worried perhaps talk to your cousin again?Do others think this is innappropriate? My cousin and her husband use the bathroom at home with the door open
I think it's none of your business. You were raised differently from them. I'm 23 and I always leave the door open. The kids constantly need to use the potty or talk to me while I'm in the shower. There's nothing to be ashamed of, all of us poop and fart, there's nothing surprising about that.
If they were raised in this way...being open about everything, I don't see anything wrong with it. It's what's ';normal'; to them. Just because it's different from how you were raised, doesn't mean it's wrong or weird. Some families don't see nudity or using the bathroom as a private matter...it's just natural. There are families out there who walk around the house nude and they are function perfectly fine. I personally like my privacy.
I remember the panicked advice I used to get when my daughter first arrived: ';never let her out of your sight'; ';never leave her in the bathroom by herself'; ';never, ever leave your child unattended ANYWHERE - even in your own home!';.
Once you start that kind of parenting, it's hard to know when to stop. Hence, doors are left open (is the baby crying?) and children are not left alone in bathtubs (it only takes an inch of water to drown!). I think that kids grow out of it and any day now the 14 year old will demand her privacy.
Maybe this family is simply not self-conscious about their bodies. It doesn't sound like there's any incest or anything like that going on (which would definitely be innapproprate!)... just people who don't close the bathroom door.
Nudity is not necessarily innappropriate. (Would you say that nudists are innappropriate?) It may be something that is not for everyone, but I don't think nudity in and of itself is innappropriate.
i don't see the problem. its just bathroom usage not a sexual playground. speaking to someone threw a closed/concealed shower curtain hardly suggests inappropriate behavior. i really don't see how even a concern about nudity would be an issue.my bathroom door is always open and i couldn't tell you a time anyone in my house saw me naked b/c i used the bathroom, or i have seen them for that matter.
I think the 14-yr old should be able to lock the door if she so chooses... however, you could possibly be leaving some details out. Is it the only bathroom in the house? In that case, locking the door (at least during a shower/bath) simply isn't an option with a 3-yr old in the house... the bladder control simply isn't developed enough to wait it out.
If it doesn't bother her... why should it bother you?
Yuck!!!! I wouldn't let my parents anywhere near the bathroom. The door was always locked!!!!! Weird family. A bit conerning actually.
It's not innappropriate for them.
You want us to say this family should change for the sake of you not getting ';freaked out';?
Quit being so self-centered, not everyone has hang-ups about nudity.
Have any of the children told you that the parent's actions bother them? I can't believe you already went there with the mom and now are looking for more ammunition on Answers to bug these people.
If the 14 yo wants her privacy then she can close the door, lock it, or ask her parents to leave.
I'm sure the father is not saying to his kids, ';hey, kids come watch me use the toilet!';
If it freaks you out so much, don't do it in your home. I'm 23 years old, and have no problem with my parents talking to me while I'm in the shower or using the bathroom when I am at their house (They live 25 minutes away from me.). They are my parents, not some freaks looking for a show.
i think that it is kind of weird but if the kids are used to it then it might be fine. but if you suggest foul play then maybe you should report it. i know it is your fam but think of how seeing their mom and dad's goodies on a regular basis might effect their mind.
Were you peeking in on the 14 yr. old?
its ok for the younger ones but at 14 a father should not see his daughter naked
in my oppinon any waymy girls dont see me naked unless they run in when im in the toilet but now they are used to knockingon the door when im in there because i dont like o lockitwhen its justme and the kids incase there is an accident
if they only have 1 toliet though trhey do need it availible for the younger kids 24/7
Are you the only one that is freaked out about this. Is anyone else in the family said they think it is weird..?
If not, then it really is there house and they do as they want.
No it's not inappropriate because it's their family.
You cast your opinion and judgement on whats not happening in your life.
You make wrong what is normal for them, let it be, you are lucky to see how ok they are with the human body and its functions
I think the dad is a perv,walking in on a 14yr old is just plain wrong.
Is it necessary to expedite my petition by my american husband by filing an excuse letter?
like typhoon in order for me to get to united statest or do i have to wait till the approval of my visa.
I need you answer guys!Is it necessary to expedite my petition by my american husband by filing an excuse letter?
Well, what would your excuse be? It would have to be a pretty good one to get USCIS to work faster. It does take immigration a while to do all the paperwork, but then since you'll be one of over a million legal immigrants this year, that shouldn't be too hard to understand.Is it necessary to expedite my petition by my american husband by filing an excuse letter?
Yes, he must filll in the petition letter (excuse) becuase on Visa the owner of banking account must aprove. If you are the owner then it's not needed. Hope this helps.
Nothing will expedite your application.
Noone is special. Not even the lawyers.
Everyone waits in the queue and learns to be patient.
There is no way to ';expedite'; your petition. Everyone waits his/her turn based on the date it was filed.
Yes u shouls wait for the government approval
No excuses. You have to wait for your visa.
I need you answer guys!Is it necessary to expedite my petition by my american husband by filing an excuse letter?
Well, what would your excuse be? It would have to be a pretty good one to get USCIS to work faster. It does take immigration a while to do all the paperwork, but then since you'll be one of over a million legal immigrants this year, that shouldn't be too hard to understand.Is it necessary to expedite my petition by my american husband by filing an excuse letter?
Yes, he must filll in the petition letter (excuse) becuase on Visa the owner of banking account must aprove. If you are the owner then it's not needed. Hope this helps.
Nothing will expedite your application.
Noone is special. Not even the lawyers.
Everyone waits in the queue and learns to be patient.
There is no way to ';expedite'; your petition. Everyone waits his/her turn based on the date it was filed.
Yes u shouls wait for the government approval
No excuses. You have to wait for your visa.
Do to layoffs ive recently become the stay at home husband who does the work around the home and the majority?
of taking care of the children my wife works hard and gets up early but due to our different time frames im still ususally up for about 3 hrs even after shes gone to sleep. We have a newborn now he's 10 months and doesnt go to sleep till around 10.My wife usually falls asleep when he does. My question is, is it wrong of me to wake her up for late night sex?Do to layoffs ive recently become the stay at home husband who does the work around the home and the majority?
I would talk about it before you just woke her up. Tell her what you're going through and what your needs are. Don't just wake her up and demand sex; you won't get any that way.Do to layoffs ive recently become the stay at home husband who does the work around the home and the majority?
A very open and candid discussion concerning your sex life is in order. Even though times are a little tough, you still need some alone time. Perhaps you should consider ';date night'; where you both agree to spend time with one another and have some intimate time. Just think if you were in her shoes....would you want to be woken up in the middle of the night when you are dog tired from trying to provide for your family? Be considerate and talk to her about your needs and I am sure you two can work something out.
Ask her... i don't see how people on yahoo answers could possibly know how your wife feels about late night sex.
There is always a way to get together for private time -- the two of you need to work it out together. You shouldn't have to sit there and wonder how your wife feels about late night sex. Just discuss it.
You need to talk to her.
You obviously can't wake her up every night, but maybe you can work something out where sometimes she alters her sleep schedule for it and sometimes you make the sacrafice.
It has to be mutual
If she used to do it to you before you got layed off, then no I don't think it's wrong, for you to wake her for a quicky.
YES! um hello she's tired and if she wants to have sex im sure she will let you know. otherwise just chill out. maybe rub one out then go to bed. if she wanted to screw you would get screwed my friend.
Maybe you should start putting your child to bed earlier. Then when you guys have ';adult time'; together you should not have to wake her up.
Not if she is ok with it.
NO she is your wife and you should be getting it on a regular
not if she's willing better to wait till the weekend
absolutely not... if it was the other way round, women would tell a woman to do the same thing... :D
I would talk about it before you just woke her up. Tell her what you're going through and what your needs are. Don't just wake her up and demand sex; you won't get any that way.Do to layoffs ive recently become the stay at home husband who does the work around the home and the majority?
A very open and candid discussion concerning your sex life is in order. Even though times are a little tough, you still need some alone time. Perhaps you should consider ';date night'; where you both agree to spend time with one another and have some intimate time. Just think if you were in her shoes....would you want to be woken up in the middle of the night when you are dog tired from trying to provide for your family? Be considerate and talk to her about your needs and I am sure you two can work something out.
Ask her... i don't see how people on yahoo answers could possibly know how your wife feels about late night sex.
There is always a way to get together for private time -- the two of you need to work it out together. You shouldn't have to sit there and wonder how your wife feels about late night sex. Just discuss it.
You need to talk to her.
You obviously can't wake her up every night, but maybe you can work something out where sometimes she alters her sleep schedule for it and sometimes you make the sacrafice.
It has to be mutual
If she used to do it to you before you got layed off, then no I don't think it's wrong, for you to wake her for a quicky.
YES! um hello she's tired and if she wants to have sex im sure she will let you know. otherwise just chill out. maybe rub one out then go to bed. if she wanted to screw you would get screwed my friend.
Maybe you should start putting your child to bed earlier. Then when you guys have ';adult time'; together you should not have to wake her up.
Not if she is ok with it.
NO she is your wife and you should be getting it on a regular
not if she's willing better to wait till the weekend
absolutely not... if it was the other way round, women would tell a woman to do the same thing... :D
I caught my husband masturbating to homosexual porno mags?
JimmyBobJimmyJoe senior has been doing this for about five months now. Between this, the pastries on the crotch of his pants, and the pus filled warts, I'm just up to my limit.
What should I do?I caught my husband masturbating to homosexual porno mags?
Amputation of Penis AND Testes is the only cure for teh gay.I caught my husband masturbating to homosexual porno mags?
Get tested. Make sure you are not infected, and pursue making some drastic changes to your relationship, until you can see a change in him.
just cut it off and let him start over new- time for him to grow a new penis. just like when a hermit crab needs a new shell
introduce him to Enormous Canadian Wang; might make him *** faster...
find a simple man (like me) that only masturbates to women doing porn
Get rid of him and find a real man.
bring him to church. the priests will solve this issue
you should confront him and get yourself tested
What should I do?I caught my husband masturbating to homosexual porno mags?
Amputation of Penis AND Testes is the only cure for teh gay.I caught my husband masturbating to homosexual porno mags?
Get tested. Make sure you are not infected, and pursue making some drastic changes to your relationship, until you can see a change in him.
just cut it off and let him start over new- time for him to grow a new penis. just like when a hermit crab needs a new shell
introduce him to Enormous Canadian Wang; might make him *** faster...
find a simple man (like me) that only masturbates to women doing porn
Get rid of him and find a real man.
bring him to church. the priests will solve this issue
you should confront him and get yourself tested
How do I balance work,home, and time with my husband and children.?
I feel like I could do it better.How do I balance work,home, and time with my husband and children.?
You have supermom syndrome. You need to make sure that your hubby helps you so you can enjoy each other's company without being bitter.How do I balance work,home, and time with my husband and children.?
we all feel like we could or should do better but we do our best and that is all we can ask of ourselves
finding the right balance is never easy and it takes time don't stress your self out to much you will find what works for you
You said you feel like you could do it better? In what way? Balancing all that a working mother has to do is a tricky job...The biggest key is to ask for help when you need it...A lot of time women think they need to do it all and that is not so...If you can get some help from your hubby and I don't know how old your kids are but you would be amazed at how much they love to help...Then sometime at night when the kids are bed...Plan a candle lit dinner just you and him...A quiet evening at home with a movie or something...He will appreciate it...
ive got a hubby and 4 kids, as long as everyone is fed, clean and happy, i dont worry
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You have supermom syndrome. You need to make sure that your hubby helps you so you can enjoy each other's company without being bitter.How do I balance work,home, and time with my husband and children.?
we all feel like we could or should do better but we do our best and that is all we can ask of ourselves
finding the right balance is never easy and it takes time don't stress your self out to much you will find what works for you
You said you feel like you could do it better? In what way? Balancing all that a working mother has to do is a tricky job...The biggest key is to ask for help when you need it...A lot of time women think they need to do it all and that is not so...If you can get some help from your hubby and I don't know how old your kids are but you would be amazed at how much they love to help...Then sometime at night when the kids are bed...Plan a candle lit dinner just you and him...A quiet evening at home with a movie or something...He will appreciate it...
ive got a hubby and 4 kids, as long as everyone is fed, clean and happy, i dont worry
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Do I have to pay US tax on my British husband's income if it is wired to a US bank account?
My husband is a British citizen, residing in the UK. He is self-employed. Can the companies he works for wire transfer his fees to our joint US account? Will I have to pay US tax on that money? It is sometimes thousands of dollarsDo I have to pay US tax on my British husband's income if it is wired to a US bank account?
As a general rule, if your husband is not a US resident alien for tax purposes and he does not make an election to be treated as one in order to file a joint return with you, his UK income is not subject to US income tax.
That said, the movement of money into and out of your joint account could give the perception of income. He should keep good records to be able to show the source of that money.Do I have to pay US tax on my British husband's income if it is wired to a US bank account?
The U.S. will not tax that money. If he were a citizen of the states living in another country or citizen of another country living here they could all of that money. You can also file in such circumstances form 1116 which is a credit for foreign taxes already paid on income.
As a general rule, if your husband is not a US resident alien for tax purposes and he does not make an election to be treated as one in order to file a joint return with you, his UK income is not subject to US income tax.
That said, the movement of money into and out of your joint account could give the perception of income. He should keep good records to be able to show the source of that money.Do I have to pay US tax on my British husband's income if it is wired to a US bank account?
The U.S. will not tax that money. If he were a citizen of the states living in another country or citizen of another country living here they could all of that money. You can also file in such circumstances form 1116 which is a credit for foreign taxes already paid on income.
File jointly if husband didnt work and didnt have social security #?
my husband didnt have social security number in 2007 and he didnt work. can i file my taxes ';married filling seperatly'; and then he wont have to file at all or do we have to file jointly?File jointly if husband didnt work and didnt have social security #?
He would have to have a social security number to file with you. But if it was given to him in 2008 it would work for 2007 taxes.File jointly if husband didnt work and didnt have social security #?
yes you can file MFS, if he didnt work then he wont have to file.
As noted by Alicia, if he has a social security number now, you two can file jointly. If he doesn't have one and the Social Security Administration won't issue him one, he can get an idividual tax identification number (ITIN) from the IRS by filing Form W-7. The completed Form W-7 must be filed with the joint tax return. See the link below.
He would have to have a social security number to file with you. But if it was given to him in 2008 it would work for 2007 taxes.File jointly if husband didnt work and didnt have social security #?
yes you can file MFS, if he didnt work then he wont have to file.
As noted by Alicia, if he has a social security number now, you two can file jointly. If he doesn't have one and the Social Security Administration won't issue him one, he can get an idividual tax identification number (ITIN) from the IRS by filing Form W-7. The completed Form W-7 must be filed with the joint tax return. See the link below.
Me and my husband are staying in a hotel tomorrow evening at a local casino. How much should we expect to pay?
on room service, what do casinos typically have to offer. I'm sure it wont be SUPER dooper fancy, but I would like to have breakfast in bed, and whatever else they offfer? Any tips or suggestions please! I have NEVER had room service in my life unless you call room service calling the desk for an extra pillow. LOLMe and my husband are staying in a hotel tomorrow evening at a local casino. How much should we expect to pay?
One of my favourite travel sites for Bed and Breakfasts
http://www.bandbunitedstates.com
One of my favourite travel sites for Bed and Breakfasts
http://www.bandbunitedstates.com
How to convince husband to wait to have another baby?
My husband is 34 and I am 30. We have a 4 year old son and a 1 year old son. We want to have a big family. My husband wants to try for a 3rd one now, but I want to wait at least 2-3 years or wait until my oldest is in school. He thinks that if we wait any longer that he will be too old to be a dad. I don't know what goes through his head. How do I convince him to wait??How to convince husband to wait to have another baby?
Talk to him about how u think abt the matter..Tell him to wait until younger baby is 3-4 yrs else he will not be properly looked after since u may be busy with ur morning sickness etc etc di8fficulties of prgnancy..Its not rather having so mant kids that matter but bringing up them properly.If u can convince him that younger baby can't be looked into well(hez only 1yr old..still needs very much attention)..U may ahve to take him in hand..run after him with food etc tec..which at the same time is not at all good for baby in womb...tell him with all heart..Im sure he'll understnd u..good luckHow to convince husband to wait to have another baby?
It's funny of how easy it seems to them. But, it's your body and it needs time to heal and be prepared for another child. Just tell him like it is.
Tell him exactly what you told us. If he still wants to have a child, you have two choices:
1) Have the child
2) Or ';keep'; trying to have a child....*wink..wink*
You don't. You just sit down and tell your side, hear his and then double up on birth control if he still won't listen!
Maybe explain to him that his youngest son deserves time to be the baby in the family, just like his first son was for 3 years. Men are never to old to be daddies, as long as they are healthy.
Here's what I told my husband. I'm not ready for it mentally, emotionally, and physically.
Until he knows what its like to, carry the baby for nine months, go through all the hormone and emotional roller coaster, aches and pains, and to deliver the baby maybe I'd think about it. Then I told him if he was selfish enough to put me through a pregnancy I wasn't ready for yet I DO IT FOR SURE when he agreed to be the main person to get up every single night to feed the baby, change the baby's diaper and main caregiver and financial support of me and the other children at the same time. He better kiss goodbye to goodnight sleeps, waking up late on weekends, no more watching sports uninterrupted....lol If he couldn't agree to this then he'd had to wait till I was ready to partner up with him for the next one.....lol
You could remind him that no matter what age he is, he is always going to be a daddy..
I can understand his plight also. He probably figures you will have another boy. And daddy's love to play sports etc.. with their sons. So he probably just wants to be active enough to do that before he gets too old. Your oldest son will be in school very soon, and I think it is a reasonable request that you wait another year.. Daddy will only be 35 or 36 years ';young'; at that time. Remind him that age is just a number, as long as he stays a healthy and happy daddy, he will age gracefully and still be a fabulous father!
Place an aspirin tablet between knees and don't let it fall until you are ready.
U both have to agree on it. Just tell him u are not ready unless he is going to be a stay at home dad full time!
Just sit by him and discuse your problem, no big deal. Let say 2 years of waiting, not 3 years, you promise !
Talk to him about how u think abt the matter..Tell him to wait until younger baby is 3-4 yrs else he will not be properly looked after since u may be busy with ur morning sickness etc etc di8fficulties of prgnancy..Its not rather having so mant kids that matter but bringing up them properly.If u can convince him that younger baby can't be looked into well(hez only 1yr old..still needs very much attention)..U may ahve to take him in hand..run after him with food etc tec..which at the same time is not at all good for baby in womb...tell him with all heart..Im sure he'll understnd u..good luckHow to convince husband to wait to have another baby?
It's funny of how easy it seems to them. But, it's your body and it needs time to heal and be prepared for another child. Just tell him like it is.
Tell him exactly what you told us. If he still wants to have a child, you have two choices:
1) Have the child
2) Or ';keep'; trying to have a child....*wink..wink*
You don't. You just sit down and tell your side, hear his and then double up on birth control if he still won't listen!
Maybe explain to him that his youngest son deserves time to be the baby in the family, just like his first son was for 3 years. Men are never to old to be daddies, as long as they are healthy.
Here's what I told my husband. I'm not ready for it mentally, emotionally, and physically.
Until he knows what its like to, carry the baby for nine months, go through all the hormone and emotional roller coaster, aches and pains, and to deliver the baby maybe I'd think about it. Then I told him if he was selfish enough to put me through a pregnancy I wasn't ready for yet I DO IT FOR SURE when he agreed to be the main person to get up every single night to feed the baby, change the baby's diaper and main caregiver and financial support of me and the other children at the same time. He better kiss goodbye to goodnight sleeps, waking up late on weekends, no more watching sports uninterrupted....lol If he couldn't agree to this then he'd had to wait till I was ready to partner up with him for the next one.....lol
You could remind him that no matter what age he is, he is always going to be a daddy..
I can understand his plight also. He probably figures you will have another boy. And daddy's love to play sports etc.. with their sons. So he probably just wants to be active enough to do that before he gets too old. Your oldest son will be in school very soon, and I think it is a reasonable request that you wait another year.. Daddy will only be 35 or 36 years ';young'; at that time. Remind him that age is just a number, as long as he stays a healthy and happy daddy, he will age gracefully and still be a fabulous father!
Place an aspirin tablet between knees and don't let it fall until you are ready.
U both have to agree on it. Just tell him u are not ready unless he is going to be a stay at home dad full time!
Just sit by him and discuse your problem, no big deal. Let say 2 years of waiting, not 3 years, you promise !
How do I deal with emotional trauma of leaving my husband?
I have just left my husband, but I don't know how to keep from running back. He can be a great guy but he is also verbally. emotionally, and at time physically abusive. It's easy to tell someone to leave, but how?? I am MARRIED to this man...how do I find the strength to not call or come home?How do I deal with emotional trauma of leaving my husband?
It's called self control. If you don't have it now you need to muster it and quit reliving the same things over and over in your head. You said he can be a great guy...can be. But he can be verbally, emotionally and physically abusive. Isn't that worth you leaving him over? It should be. If it's not keep in mind the name calling, beating and crying you've done in the past to keep a relationship with an unstable madman who's poisoned your life. You deal with it by realizing you can't continue to treat yourself like garbage much as he has and will continue to.How do I deal with emotional trauma of leaving my husband?
I'm going thrugh a similar situation, and here are some things that I suggest...
At a bare minimum you need to get some emotional support from friends and family, in order to build up your inner strength and confidence. You need to believe in yourself and have the courage that you can live without him...
I also strongly suggest getting counselling. If you allow yourself to be treated this way, then you may have a problem as well. This may include getting medication to help you with your grief. In my opinion, there is no shame in this, and it is a better option than going back into an abusive relationship. This is not saying that you'd have to stay on it forever...
This will be hard but close your eyes and picture him being absuive to you.HE IS NOT A GREAT GUY!!!! Makes you shiver doesn't it.
That's your answer.
You deserve better and being married to somone does not give them the right to abuse you.You left for a reason and you need to remember that.If you want to go back then nobody can stop you but this will be your life!!!
You are strong enough as you've already left and you may be afraid but you are in control now of your life and your destiny.
Go live your life the way you want to.
YOU CAN DO THIS! I know this because it happened to me too and i'm the happiest i've ever been in my life.
Focus on what you really want out of life. You deserve to be happy no matter what. It sound like you really care for him, but there are things going on that's making your marriage complicated. If you can't work it out, and you all have tried everything. Call upon your family and friends to help you through these troubling times. It's not easy but you have to tell yourself you deserve better and trust yourself to do better.
Good luck my friend.
Abuse is never O.K. Were you abused in your childhood? Because it is typical that the victim makes excuses, just like people who have been conned refuse to admit they were the fool. You are straight up seeing it, admitting it, writing it in yahoo answers, stand up, you could be missing the boat--the longer you stay with this man who cannot love, the longer you are missing out on a relationship with a man who will give you what you need. Violence is the last straw of a desperate person, and don't you let anybody tell you any different! Let him go, he is an abuser, in every way. Wake up, you are living a lie.
Well before you leave you better make sure that your reasons for leaving are greater then the reasons that you have for currently being there. Because after you leave thats all you will be able to think about..... unless you decide to focus your mind on something else as soon as you see, smell or hear some thing that makes you think of him.
good luck
btw dont just jump into another relationship its irresponsible and it doesnt help you in the long run. Make sure you have resolved your feeling for him before your start a new one.
did u divorce or just sparated? if you are separated call him nd tell him you just need time to think about it. its never to late to find someone else. if you find that you dont wanna be with him than you jsut have to move on. but if u are divorce than u just need to move on unless you really cant do it anymore than definatly be with him bcuz when u love some thing nd it goes away but it comes running back then its ment to be but if it doesnt return than its not. it is hard to leave someone you have loved or love for a long time.
Just ask yourself do I really want to live a life where I am verbally,emotionally and physically abused all the time. Or do I want to feel loved, want and needed. IT'S YOUR CHOICE.
Look into the mirror everyday and tell yourself I am a good person and I deserve a better life.
I AM NO ONES PUNCHING BAG I AM GOING TO BE STRONG.
good luck
You remember the bad things and never look back. For me I remember the day he held a gun to my head, later he said it was not loaded but I will never know the truth. I was even told the common one if he could not have me no one would... he would kill any man I dated or married. We are strong enough to move forward. I met many men who ran from fear of my ex... one said he would always be there for me and to protect me, now we have been married for 8 months. There is a rainbow, just smile and good things will happen.
Find a great counselor sweetie, find some good friends that are supportive. Your life will be better in the long run for this. I know how hard it is, it is gut wrenching and heart breaking. Do not resort to finding someone to replace him, take your time, get centered, find out who you really are and live life to its fullest, life is too short to be in an abusive relationship.
He broke his marriage vows to you with his behavior. He was not behaving like a husband. Husbands do not yell and scream. They do not break things or hit their wives to enforce their will.
He didn't do his part.
I suggest you find a support group for domestic violence in your area as soon as possible. There you will find the advice and help you need to make it through this tough time.
Stay strong and keep safe.
Reimind yourself everytime you think of going back about the bad things that he has done to you. Take the time that you now have to write down the things you have gone through and re read them when you have the urge to run back to him.
So you MARRIED that man, you married the WRONG MAN FOR YOU. You keep in mind the terrible things he has done to you, that will give you the strength to move on.
That's difficult. But you have to find the strength. If he loves you than he would not be abusive. Whenever you think about going back to the marriage, think about why you left him in the first place. Good luck.
This is why the beaten dog continues to return to the place where he is continuously beaten.... this must be you.
And you won't likely be able to change unless you get some help.
When you get the urge to call him - remember why you left him. If he was abusive, then remember those times, keep yourself safe and stay away,
M
Get out and about. Have a girls night out with girlfriends you can trust. Go for it Girl !!!
It's called self control. If you don't have it now you need to muster it and quit reliving the same things over and over in your head. You said he can be a great guy...can be. But he can be verbally, emotionally and physically abusive. Isn't that worth you leaving him over? It should be. If it's not keep in mind the name calling, beating and crying you've done in the past to keep a relationship with an unstable madman who's poisoned your life. You deal with it by realizing you can't continue to treat yourself like garbage much as he has and will continue to.How do I deal with emotional trauma of leaving my husband?
I'm going thrugh a similar situation, and here are some things that I suggest...
At a bare minimum you need to get some emotional support from friends and family, in order to build up your inner strength and confidence. You need to believe in yourself and have the courage that you can live without him...
I also strongly suggest getting counselling. If you allow yourself to be treated this way, then you may have a problem as well. This may include getting medication to help you with your grief. In my opinion, there is no shame in this, and it is a better option than going back into an abusive relationship. This is not saying that you'd have to stay on it forever...
This will be hard but close your eyes and picture him being absuive to you.HE IS NOT A GREAT GUY!!!! Makes you shiver doesn't it.
That's your answer.
You deserve better and being married to somone does not give them the right to abuse you.You left for a reason and you need to remember that.If you want to go back then nobody can stop you but this will be your life!!!
You are strong enough as you've already left and you may be afraid but you are in control now of your life and your destiny.
Go live your life the way you want to.
YOU CAN DO THIS! I know this because it happened to me too and i'm the happiest i've ever been in my life.
Focus on what you really want out of life. You deserve to be happy no matter what. It sound like you really care for him, but there are things going on that's making your marriage complicated. If you can't work it out, and you all have tried everything. Call upon your family and friends to help you through these troubling times. It's not easy but you have to tell yourself you deserve better and trust yourself to do better.
Good luck my friend.
Abuse is never O.K. Were you abused in your childhood? Because it is typical that the victim makes excuses, just like people who have been conned refuse to admit they were the fool. You are straight up seeing it, admitting it, writing it in yahoo answers, stand up, you could be missing the boat--the longer you stay with this man who cannot love, the longer you are missing out on a relationship with a man who will give you what you need. Violence is the last straw of a desperate person, and don't you let anybody tell you any different! Let him go, he is an abuser, in every way. Wake up, you are living a lie.
Well before you leave you better make sure that your reasons for leaving are greater then the reasons that you have for currently being there. Because after you leave thats all you will be able to think about..... unless you decide to focus your mind on something else as soon as you see, smell or hear some thing that makes you think of him.
good luck
btw dont just jump into another relationship its irresponsible and it doesnt help you in the long run. Make sure you have resolved your feeling for him before your start a new one.
did u divorce or just sparated? if you are separated call him nd tell him you just need time to think about it. its never to late to find someone else. if you find that you dont wanna be with him than you jsut have to move on. but if u are divorce than u just need to move on unless you really cant do it anymore than definatly be with him bcuz when u love some thing nd it goes away but it comes running back then its ment to be but if it doesnt return than its not. it is hard to leave someone you have loved or love for a long time.
Just ask yourself do I really want to live a life where I am verbally,emotionally and physically abused all the time. Or do I want to feel loved, want and needed. IT'S YOUR CHOICE.
Look into the mirror everyday and tell yourself I am a good person and I deserve a better life.
I AM NO ONES PUNCHING BAG I AM GOING TO BE STRONG.
good luck
You remember the bad things and never look back. For me I remember the day he held a gun to my head, later he said it was not loaded but I will never know the truth. I was even told the common one if he could not have me no one would... he would kill any man I dated or married. We are strong enough to move forward. I met many men who ran from fear of my ex... one said he would always be there for me and to protect me, now we have been married for 8 months. There is a rainbow, just smile and good things will happen.
Find a great counselor sweetie, find some good friends that are supportive. Your life will be better in the long run for this. I know how hard it is, it is gut wrenching and heart breaking. Do not resort to finding someone to replace him, take your time, get centered, find out who you really are and live life to its fullest, life is too short to be in an abusive relationship.
He broke his marriage vows to you with his behavior. He was not behaving like a husband. Husbands do not yell and scream. They do not break things or hit their wives to enforce their will.
He didn't do his part.
I suggest you find a support group for domestic violence in your area as soon as possible. There you will find the advice and help you need to make it through this tough time.
Stay strong and keep safe.
Reimind yourself everytime you think of going back about the bad things that he has done to you. Take the time that you now have to write down the things you have gone through and re read them when you have the urge to run back to him.
So you MARRIED that man, you married the WRONG MAN FOR YOU. You keep in mind the terrible things he has done to you, that will give you the strength to move on.
That's difficult. But you have to find the strength. If he loves you than he would not be abusive. Whenever you think about going back to the marriage, think about why you left him in the first place. Good luck.
This is why the beaten dog continues to return to the place where he is continuously beaten.... this must be you.
And you won't likely be able to change unless you get some help.
When you get the urge to call him - remember why you left him. If he was abusive, then remember those times, keep yourself safe and stay away,
M
Get out and about. Have a girls night out with girlfriends you can trust. Go for it Girl !!!
How does my husband find a pro bono family lawyer in miami?
long story short, my husbands baby mother is keeping his child from him.He wants to be able to see his daughter and raise her in the right direction. She collects child support and he is up to date. There is no setup for him to see his child, please help us.How does my husband find a pro bono family lawyer in miami?
Um, I would check with your yellow pages under family law and contact some of the attorneys to see if any of them are willing to do free cases, also look in the yellow pages for lawyer agencies that help refer you to certain attorneys and just let them know that you want to find a attorney in family law who works probono cases.
Also, here's a reference to some pro bono guidelines and possible agencies and attornies in your area, just scroll down to Flordia and see what pages you need to read for the sources you are looking for. Good Luck!
http://www.abanet.org/litigation/committ鈥?/a>How does my husband find a pro bono family lawyer in miami?
Walk through an online family lawyers directory.
Look in the Yellow Pages under Free Lawyers.
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Um, I would check with your yellow pages under family law and contact some of the attorneys to see if any of them are willing to do free cases, also look in the yellow pages for lawyer agencies that help refer you to certain attorneys and just let them know that you want to find a attorney in family law who works probono cases.
Also, here's a reference to some pro bono guidelines and possible agencies and attornies in your area, just scroll down to Flordia and see what pages you need to read for the sources you are looking for. Good Luck!
http://www.abanet.org/litigation/committ鈥?/a>How does my husband find a pro bono family lawyer in miami?
Walk through an online family lawyers directory.
Look in the Yellow Pages under Free Lawyers.
google.com
How did your husband deal with the new baby?
Did he adjust well? Did he help you out? Did the change affect him?How did your husband deal with the new baby?
My husband is amazing and I feel trully blessed to have met him. We have a four year old son ( our 1st child) and he has always been there financially, emotionally, just in every aspect. I am a vegan and the only vegan/vegetable health food store is 1 hour from our house and he would take me there and stock up of my vegan foods, he even looked up what a pregnant woman who's a vegan should eat.... he's just amazing. Now I'm pregnant with twin girls and its the same thing, I have bad morning sicknessso he rubs my back, helps me out as much as he can with the house and our son.. plus he work 12 hour days at work.How did your husband deal with the new baby?
He adjusted amazingly! He was so thrilled to have a baby and he was so helpful with her when she came home. With our younger kids, he was always willing to help out with our older daughter when I needed to nurse the babies. Also, he took care of me during those first few weeks with the baby at home (he made food and let me rest). He was so wonderful (and still is!). Did it change him? Yes. He is still just as loving as he has always been but now he loves our kids and is always willing to be a dad, first. I love that about him.
My husband is amazing and I feel trully blessed to have met him. We have a four year old son ( our 1st child) and he has always been there financially, emotionally, just in every aspect. I am a vegan and the only vegan/vegetable health food store is 1 hour from our house and he would take me there and stock up of my vegan foods, he even looked up what a pregnant woman who's a vegan should eat.... he's just amazing. Now I'm pregnant with twin girls and its the same thing, I have bad morning sicknessso he rubs my back, helps me out as much as he can with the house and our son.. plus he work 12 hour days at work.How did your husband deal with the new baby?
He adjusted amazingly! He was so thrilled to have a baby and he was so helpful with her when she came home. With our younger kids, he was always willing to help out with our older daughter when I needed to nurse the babies. Also, he took care of me during those first few weeks with the baby at home (he made food and let me rest). He was so wonderful (and still is!). Did it change him? Yes. He is still just as loving as he has always been but now he loves our kids and is always willing to be a dad, first. I love that about him.
How do I respond to a ';coach'; who ignores my husband,child and me? I want to as big of an a** as he is!?
I don't want to teach my babyboy that it's ok to be an a** but I don't want us to be ignored! My son is supposed to get a trophy for baseball but they have never given us any info even after us paying for it and even after our repeated phonecalls! My husband is at his boiling point! And so am I! How should I respond to this a** of a coach!How do I respond to a ';coach'; who ignores my husband,child and me? I want to as big of an a** as he is!?
Sounds like it was a scam. You could do the American thing and sue him, but keep it quiet from your child or do not act so angry about it or just accept that life is not fair. Also you may want to go to a trophy shop and order your son a trophy there.How do I respond to a ';coach'; who ignores my husband,child and me? I want to as big of an a** as he is!?
whatever you decide to do your son needs to know how you settled the problem. how else do you expect him to learn to deal with his problems when he grows up? even if you have to get angry, so what. sometimes that is what it takes to get people to do anything these days. the only thing you would not want your son to see would be if your husband punched the coach but I don't think that is going to happen.
Just go in and talk to him and then turn and leave and get on with your life. Or maybe go and buy a trophy yourself and just forget this guy altogether, it's not worth the time and effort, some people are just like that.
Call the league president if there is one. If you know any of the umps they should know who to contact.
Sounds like it was a scam. You could do the American thing and sue him, but keep it quiet from your child or do not act so angry about it or just accept that life is not fair. Also you may want to go to a trophy shop and order your son a trophy there.How do I respond to a ';coach'; who ignores my husband,child and me? I want to as big of an a** as he is!?
whatever you decide to do your son needs to know how you settled the problem. how else do you expect him to learn to deal with his problems when he grows up? even if you have to get angry, so what. sometimes that is what it takes to get people to do anything these days. the only thing you would not want your son to see would be if your husband punched the coach but I don't think that is going to happen.
Just go in and talk to him and then turn and leave and get on with your life. Or maybe go and buy a trophy yourself and just forget this guy altogether, it's not worth the time and effort, some people are just like that.
Call the league president if there is one. If you know any of the umps they should know who to contact.
Where can my husband and i go for a nice vacation this summer?
We live in the south and we've pretty much been everywhere and we've been married for almost 33 years. I just need a few ideas. Thank youWhere can my husband and i go for a nice vacation this summer?
How about Puerto Princesa,Palawan,Philippines?You can visit the underground river tunnel there,the starfish island,the snake island(there's no snake there,the island is shaped like a snake),the Honda Bay,the many beautiful beaches there and many others.There are affordable hotels and inns there but with good amenities,like the De Loro Inn and Restaurant where you'll just spend $45 a day for a room for 2 for an executive room already.You can visit their website at www.deloropalawan.com or www.palawanisland.info.There is also D'Lucky Garden Inn.There are also hotels there if you don't like Inns.There are lots of foreign tourists there that even stayed there for months because they love the place and it's affordability.So,why not have your vacation there.Where can my husband and i go for a nice vacation this summer?
I'd like to mount a campaign to encourage people not to go anywhere. Travel has become so expensive and unpleasant that it's hard to understand why people don't stay home.
Why are we crowding our highways and airports to get someplace else? Newspapers and magazines are filled with ads trying to get us to travel. They want us to go somewhere - anywhere but home.
You should try for INDIA; really India is the great destination for summer vacation.
I have recently traveled India.
My tour was managed through an Indian travel company so I would recommend a travel company.
http://www.iconindiatours.com
Best of luck
Don't go to mexico for one thing i here they kill a lot of tourists there especially Canadians but that's besides the point
i would go somewhere that has a lot of culture like France or a lot European countries or go somewhere random like Australia :)
Boracay, Cebu, Bohol and Palawan Islands of the Philippines!
Hawaii
Las Vegas
Atlantic City
Perhaps u can try Pulau Redang in Malaysia.
COME GO TO GHANA WITH ME
How about Puerto Princesa,Palawan,Philippines?You can visit the underground river tunnel there,the starfish island,the snake island(there's no snake there,the island is shaped like a snake),the Honda Bay,the many beautiful beaches there and many others.There are affordable hotels and inns there but with good amenities,like the De Loro Inn and Restaurant where you'll just spend $45 a day for a room for 2 for an executive room already.You can visit their website at www.deloropalawan.com or www.palawanisland.info.There is also D'Lucky Garden Inn.There are also hotels there if you don't like Inns.There are lots of foreign tourists there that even stayed there for months because they love the place and it's affordability.So,why not have your vacation there.Where can my husband and i go for a nice vacation this summer?
I'd like to mount a campaign to encourage people not to go anywhere. Travel has become so expensive and unpleasant that it's hard to understand why people don't stay home.
Why are we crowding our highways and airports to get someplace else? Newspapers and magazines are filled with ads trying to get us to travel. They want us to go somewhere - anywhere but home.
You should try for INDIA; really India is the great destination for summer vacation.
I have recently traveled India.
My tour was managed through an Indian travel company so I would recommend a travel company.
http://www.iconindiatours.com
Best of luck
Don't go to mexico for one thing i here they kill a lot of tourists there especially Canadians but that's besides the point
i would go somewhere that has a lot of culture like France or a lot European countries or go somewhere random like Australia :)
Boracay, Cebu, Bohol and Palawan Islands of the Philippines!
Hawaii
Las Vegas
Atlantic City
Perhaps u can try Pulau Redang in Malaysia.
COME GO TO GHANA WITH ME
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Why does my husband get so angry that im a night owl?
So, I am a night owl. As in i stay up all night and sleep mostly all day.
The fact that i sleep doesn't bother my husband, but the fact that i stay up all night does I don't understand why it bothers him so much. We actually argue about it. Can anyone tell me why he gets so angry? I really don't get it.Why does my husband get so angry that im a night owl?
I am a true night owl. I have delayed sleep phase syndrome. If you have it too, your husband is going to have to get used to it, because YOU can never change. You can adjust your sleep pattern, but just one night of staying up late and you will have to ';reset'; again. Wikipedia has some information on it. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Delayed_sleep_phase_syndrome
I have been married to my husband for 20 years. He is used to my odd hours. He wakes up to find I have rearranged the furniture or cleaned the whole house or maybe have just been working (I work from home).
In the early days of our marriage I would compromise. I would go to bed so we could cuddle, then once he fell asleep I would quietly get up and go on with the rest of my evening. He's used to it now. He goes to bed at 11 and gets up at 7. I go to bed at 3 and get up at 9. We each have our normal, and he can no more force me to his schedule than I can force him to mine.
My first husband would get very angry at me. The slightest sound would wake him up and he would fly into a rage. He was angry because I could stay up late and seem to get by on less sleep than him - it frustrated him.
Talk to your husband, have him read the Wikipedia article if it applies to you. My husband understands it has nothing to do with him or how I feel about him, the plain fact is, if I go to bed at the same time as him I will lie awake for hours until my magic hour of 3:00am is reached, at which time I fall asleep.
True Night Owls are who they are, and those who love us have to learn to live with it, just as we have.Why does my husband get so angry that im a night owl?
I to am a night owl, but he doesn't care. What do you do all night play on the computer? May be he thinks you are talking to other men on line. Or he thinks you just don't want to be in bed with him. Try asking him why it bothers him so much. I like to be on line also, and I do talk to people , but that is all it is, talk. I spend lot of my time here answering questions. I love to give advise. So ask him , and let him know why you like being a night owl, I like it because I have been this way for over forty years, and it is hard to change your routine.
Good luck hope it gets better.
I get the same way with my wife and here's why:
She's choosing to stay up instead of going to bed with me. It's not that I think she should be in bed with me simply because I want her there. It's that I think she should WANT to be in bed with me more than doing whatever it is she does (normally watch TV or on myspace/facebook for a long time). It's a form of rejection, and if you're doing it every night...
Would it upset you if he continually chose to do something else rather than spend time with you?
I work a night shift, so I'm a night owl, too. But even on my days off, I still stay up late. My husband gets upset because he just wants to lay with his wife in bed. I used to be the same way when he worked the night shift and I was a stay-at-home mom. So I understand.
He just wants to hold you at night is all.
Feel special and wanted, missy.
When the cat is away, the mouse comes out to play... But one day the mouse asks itself, ';Why does the cat leave when he could be eating me? What is it that the cat is seeking when his food is right here at home?'; The mouse does not realize that the cat might be, say, getting nurtured or de-loused, and not a different meal. My point being is that it is human nature and part of him...
It could be a number of reasons. You should probably sit down and talk to him about it... be prepared to argue a little but keep it in check -- if there is something else bothering him you need to work through his anger and drill down to the truth of things. He might just miss you in bed at nights.
Lots of people like that intimacy of sleeping next to the person they love. Maybe he misses you being next to him. If it's a problem in your marriage, why don't you try going to bed earlier for a week to see if that solves things and works for you.
Do you work nights? Maybe you make noise?
Have you asked him why it bothers him so much?
Maybe he thinks you slip out of the house.
Maybe he wants to spend time with you or talk to you during the day but does not because he will wake you.
You really need to ask him about it.
My step dad is the same way with my mom. It's weird, I think it's because they cant sleep as well if your not there. I work nights and when I'm at work my boyfriend sleeps on the couch. When I'm home he sleeps in bed with me. Its a security thing I think.
He wants to be with you and do everything with you, but you're just not there :(
He loves you :)
do you do anything else besides sleep? have a job?
Maybe he likes being in bed with you.
well am not married or anything but i say he wants to maybe snuggle or maybe uh do other things ....
maybe he wants to hold you while he sleeps and you're not there
go to bed
The fact that i sleep doesn't bother my husband, but the fact that i stay up all night does I don't understand why it bothers him so much. We actually argue about it. Can anyone tell me why he gets so angry? I really don't get it.Why does my husband get so angry that im a night owl?
I am a true night owl. I have delayed sleep phase syndrome. If you have it too, your husband is going to have to get used to it, because YOU can never change. You can adjust your sleep pattern, but just one night of staying up late and you will have to ';reset'; again. Wikipedia has some information on it. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Delayed_sleep_phase_syndrome
I have been married to my husband for 20 years. He is used to my odd hours. He wakes up to find I have rearranged the furniture or cleaned the whole house or maybe have just been working (I work from home).
In the early days of our marriage I would compromise. I would go to bed so we could cuddle, then once he fell asleep I would quietly get up and go on with the rest of my evening. He's used to it now. He goes to bed at 11 and gets up at 7. I go to bed at 3 and get up at 9. We each have our normal, and he can no more force me to his schedule than I can force him to mine.
My first husband would get very angry at me. The slightest sound would wake him up and he would fly into a rage. He was angry because I could stay up late and seem to get by on less sleep than him - it frustrated him.
Talk to your husband, have him read the Wikipedia article if it applies to you. My husband understands it has nothing to do with him or how I feel about him, the plain fact is, if I go to bed at the same time as him I will lie awake for hours until my magic hour of 3:00am is reached, at which time I fall asleep.
True Night Owls are who they are, and those who love us have to learn to live with it, just as we have.Why does my husband get so angry that im a night owl?
I to am a night owl, but he doesn't care. What do you do all night play on the computer? May be he thinks you are talking to other men on line. Or he thinks you just don't want to be in bed with him. Try asking him why it bothers him so much. I like to be on line also, and I do talk to people , but that is all it is, talk. I spend lot of my time here answering questions. I love to give advise. So ask him , and let him know why you like being a night owl, I like it because I have been this way for over forty years, and it is hard to change your routine.
Good luck hope it gets better.
I get the same way with my wife and here's why:
She's choosing to stay up instead of going to bed with me. It's not that I think she should be in bed with me simply because I want her there. It's that I think she should WANT to be in bed with me more than doing whatever it is she does (normally watch TV or on myspace/facebook for a long time). It's a form of rejection, and if you're doing it every night...
Would it upset you if he continually chose to do something else rather than spend time with you?
I work a night shift, so I'm a night owl, too. But even on my days off, I still stay up late. My husband gets upset because he just wants to lay with his wife in bed. I used to be the same way when he worked the night shift and I was a stay-at-home mom. So I understand.
He just wants to hold you at night is all.
Feel special and wanted, missy.
When the cat is away, the mouse comes out to play... But one day the mouse asks itself, ';Why does the cat leave when he could be eating me? What is it that the cat is seeking when his food is right here at home?'; The mouse does not realize that the cat might be, say, getting nurtured or de-loused, and not a different meal. My point being is that it is human nature and part of him...
It could be a number of reasons. You should probably sit down and talk to him about it... be prepared to argue a little but keep it in check -- if there is something else bothering him you need to work through his anger and drill down to the truth of things. He might just miss you in bed at nights.
Lots of people like that intimacy of sleeping next to the person they love. Maybe he misses you being next to him. If it's a problem in your marriage, why don't you try going to bed earlier for a week to see if that solves things and works for you.
Do you work nights? Maybe you make noise?
Have you asked him why it bothers him so much?
Maybe he thinks you slip out of the house.
Maybe he wants to spend time with you or talk to you during the day but does not because he will wake you.
You really need to ask him about it.
My step dad is the same way with my mom. It's weird, I think it's because they cant sleep as well if your not there. I work nights and when I'm at work my boyfriend sleeps on the couch. When I'm home he sleeps in bed with me. Its a security thing I think.
He wants to be with you and do everything with you, but you're just not there :(
He loves you :)
do you do anything else besides sleep? have a job?
Maybe he likes being in bed with you.
well am not married or anything but i say he wants to maybe snuggle or maybe uh do other things ....
maybe he wants to hold you while he sleeps and you're not there
go to bed
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