Why is there all this pressure to get married?What is the purpose of having a bf or a husband?
it's ok to want to enjoy your freedom a while... but it's nice to have a companion as well... there is no rush to get married... take your time and time will tellWhat is the purpose of having a bf or a husband?
I think if someone wants to be single, its their life, so go for it. If thats what makes you happy, do it. Your the one that has to live with your life, and no one else, so do what feels right to you :)
I personally love being married. My husband and I have known each other since we were teenagers. Ive loved him since the first time i saw him. I couldnt imagine life without him. i wouldnt want to spend my life without him, so marriage was right for me. But its not right for everyone.
Yes it is ok to remain single for as long as you want to. Its ok to do whatever feels right for YOU
Dont let anyone cloud your judgements or morals, just be true to yourself.
The only advice I can give you, is dont give up hope of ever finding love, otherwise when it comes your way you may miss out on one of the best life experiences you can ever have.
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sure its ok. you do whatever makes you happy. if you feel pressured or trapped it wouldn't work anyway. when it comes down to it it is important for you to be happy. don't let anyone tell you how it has to be, especially when your working with your feelings. there is a lot of good and bad to being married and to being single depends on the person.
Yes! B/f's or husbands are good for sex!
Kidding aside, being married or being in a commited relationship feels wonderful, simple things like when weekend approaches, the question would be ';what are WE doing this weekend?'; instead of ';what are you doing this weekend.'; Someone to love who loves you back and depend on emotionally and physically is very comforting.
If you wish to have a bf or husband for companionship, that's perfectly normal.
If you wish to have a friend to fill that bill, and remain single, that too is perfectly normal.
Anyone is free to choose their own lifestyle. There's no need to allow anyone to pressure anyone into anything.
Of course it is okay. I believe we all do what is best for us, well in theory we should do that.
I am engaged and that is because I feel like its the ultimate way i can show my committment and my husband to be believes that same.
I respect those that have different views and yes their relationships are just as serious. some people are just too rigid in their belief sets and believe that society should be one and the same for all - which is unobtainable.
If you have to ask....you don't need either.
It is okay to remain single. Never settle for a person just because of people pressuring you to have someone in your life. Maturity is being able to love yourself, by yourself and for yourself.
Nobody, can force you to get married to anyone.
I don't understand what you mean by ';pressure'; .. but because in our society today, people take marriage as ';you have to';
But! you don't, it's your life, live it how you want.
gd luck
the purpose is to get certain attention and security. Men or women. what ever your preference. I tried the independent woman thing thinking i only need me, i got tired.
Some people are threatened by single people. It is hard to understand when someone doesn't want to be with someone for the rest of their life. But if you are happy with that then everyone else needs to mind their own business.
Because people just can't seem to mind their own business, you don't have to answer to anybody, you do what makes you happy, the heck with them.
its how nature works. there is nothing wrong with being single, not much fun but each to there own.
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