How can I cash my tax return check , without a bank account ? Can I sign it over to my husband ?

I do not have or want a bank account . I do not want to have a joint account with my husband . But I do want to cash my tax return , it is over $4,000 .. It is in both my husband and my name ... He has a bank account , can I just sign it over to him , and put it into his account ? We live in New York , although , i'm not sure that matters ... Thank you !!How can I cash my tax return check , without a bank account ? Can I sign it over to my husband ?
Call his bank and ask. Each bank has different policies on signing checks over to another person. You should be able to. Otherwise you could go to a check cashing location, although you will have to find one that will accept a check of that amount, and they may take a good sized chunk. hope that helps.





I Didn't notice that your question stated it is in both your names. I apologize, you both need to sign the check and it can be deposited in his account just fine.How can I cash my tax return check , without a bank account ? Can I sign it over to my husband ?
Hi Niki


im having the same problem, my wife does not have any checking acct. she did did sign the the check but my bank rejected it (Citibank). good luck.

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It's not ';YOUR'; refund check! It belongs to both you and your husband since both of your names are on it. You BOTH must endorse it and then your husband can deposit it into his bank account. He can then withdraw whatever he chooses to and give it to you.

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How Much Wealthier is Hillary Since she Refused to Leave a Husband who Frequently Cheated on Her?

Did the Clintons (mainly Bill) earn about $109 Mil. in the past handful of years?





Hillary would have been entitled to none of that if she had shown herself any respect and ditched Bill for his frequent cheating in the 80s and 90s. Right?How Much Wealthier is Hillary Since she Refused to Leave a Husband who Frequently Cheated on Her?
interesting thought....Ive always kinda thought it was a marriage of convenience anywayHow Much Wealthier is Hillary Since she Refused to Leave a Husband who Frequently Cheated on Her?
Bill Clinton loves his wife. That has been apparent in this primary. I think he was very happy with his life after leaving the presidency and he has done a lot of good around the world. People work things out believe it or not. I have seen few couples who are better suited to each other. Do you throw that away because of a sickness? Some people don't.
Bill Clinton would not have made as much money either, if they had divorced. She would not have gotten as far as she has if they had divorced. I beleive she has handled everything with respect. Nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors, and frankly noone's business how they handle their marriage.
If she had left him you would of called her a quitter. She can't do anything right for some people, but that's ok. I think it has shown how strong she really is to have stayed.
Wrong......This is her personal business pal.....Most of the presidents in history had mistresses including Kennedy..
Why are you using Lee Harvey Oswald's picture? Did you think no one would notice?
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What are some creative ways to share a pregnancy with my husband while he is on deployment to Iraq?

my husband and i recently found out we were having our first child after a long wait. While its all very exciting, its also heartbreaking because after knowing about the baby for a month (im 13 weeks) hes deploying to iraq for a year. This means the baby will be 5 months old when he returns. I want him to feel like hes a part of this pregnancy and the babys life even though hes so far away. Any ideas? Anything you can think of would be helpfulWhat are some creative ways to share a pregnancy with my husband while he is on deployment to Iraq?
from one military wife to another....it's hard!





write him letters, send pics of your growing tummy, email him videos once the baby is born, show the baby pics of him and say ';there's daddy!'; so, at least he will know the word daddy.


make sure your husband knows that when he gets back the baby will most likely not like him and won't want him, but the more he digs in and is around the baby the better aquainted they will get.





it's really hard b/c we get to be with the babies and kids all the time, but they have to leave them sometimes.


we just had our first and my husband is getting ready for deployment (only 6 months though!). we have already planned pictures, videos, emails, etc. to keep him in the loop. it's really, really hard, but you'll get through it.





take care





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one thing i did when my husband was away during my pregnancy was tell him stories...like, ';ya know, i've been really hormonal today. you should feel lucky that you aren't here b/c i probably would have yelled at you b/c the dishes are dirty and i didn't have any clean socks today and the only person i could get mad at was MYSELF! AHHHH!!!!';


little stuff like that.


or,


';ya know...i'm starting to gain some wieght, but they opened the pool today so i went swimming and i wore a string bikini!! yes, sir, i did. i didn't even care about my big ol pregnant tummy! i wore that little 2 piece and felt like a godess!!!';





any kind of fun story and happy story to make him smile. sometimes i would even keep a list with me of all the things i wanted to tell him about next time i talked to him. that way i had all my stories prepared! i never want him his heart to hurt, which i know is silly, b/c he's away from his son, so it's going to, but i try to keep it light and fun so he doesn't feel too sad.





at least by the time he gets back the baby will be getting into a cool phase and he won't have missed too many milestones. in hindsight i'd rather my husband miss the first five months than the second half of the first year (our situation) he is going to miss eating solid foods, crawling, walking...





anyway....take care and start thinking of every little thing as a story to tell your husband!What are some creative ways to share a pregnancy with my husband while he is on deployment to Iraq?
im guessing since hes in the military your using a naval hospital like me where you dont get many ultrasounds. When you do go in, i would menton it to the technician and try to get as many pictures as possible! You should get one of the sets where you can listen to your babies heartbeat that have the option to record it so you can send that to him too! Just make sure to take lots of videos and pictures and update him all the time on whats going on!
Have your husband make audio tapes for the baby. He could read childrens books, sing, or just talk to the baby. Play them everynight to your belly - loud enough for your baby to hear. After he/she is born, continue to do this and show pictures.





Your baby will become familiar with his/her fathers voice this way and will recognize him when he come home.
Email him often and tell him about the movements the baby is making in your womb. Tell him about your cravings, perhaps ice cream mixed with broccoli,


that should make him laugh.





Tell him what happens when the baby don't like your choice of food, for a meal.





Tell him which side of your body you have to sleep on, so that the baby will be comfortable.


Tell him how the baby will move around frantically, if you change


this position.


Tell him about the baby's room and which colors you have chosen for it.





Lastly, ask his advice on the names you have chosen, and the prayers


you are sending up to God that the baby will be well, and the three of you will be together soon.
Congrats on the baby and god bless you, wife of a soldier is so hard. Here are some things you can do, take pictures of your growing belly ever so many weeks and send them to him so he can see your changes. Or do a video diary were you talk to your hubby and show him your belly and video tape the baby kicking. ( This will show better during your 3rd trimester) Since you dont know the sex, have the doctor write it on a piece of paper and when we gets to call you, open the paper and find out together so that dad can hear your reaction! Video tape the birth too and dont show the graphics (you know what I mean) and send it over seas to him so he can see the baby being born. Good luck girl and god bless!!!!!
Every week, send him pictures of your belly (from the side) so he can see it as it grows.





Send him all ultrasound pictures. Some doctors will let you videotape ultrasounds. Explain to your doctor that your husband is in Iraq, and you'd like him to experience it like you do, so maybe they'll let you videotape.





Keep a ';Pregnancy Diary'; Every day, write down what your day was like--all the symptoms you had.





Take pictures of all gifts you receive and send them to him.





If you decide to find out the sex of the baby, instead of finding out on your own, have the doctor not tell you during the exam, but to write it down and put it in an envelope. Open the envelope while on the phone with him, and find out together.
send him pics of the ultrasounds...send him letters from the baby, and sign it from your baby...hope to see you soon...





cute stuff!
First, congratulations! As a military wife, I try to keep my husband updated by taking lots of pictures and linking them to him in emails. You might also want to find a photo site you like (dotphoto, snapfish, etc) to upload pictures to. That way all your family can see baby's progress. If you don't have a camcorder, now would be a good time to get one. Its not the same as being there, but at least he'll feel more a part of things.
Send ultrasound pictures and take lots of pictures and videos after the baby is born.
keep a written journal along w/ videocam moments so that you can show him on the computer daily. Congrats!
All the previous advice about sending pics of the ultrasound are great--I totally agree--I would also suggest joining one of those websites where they send you daily and weekly info about how your baby is doing and growing--info/facts like--at week 30 your baby is doing this in your belly--etc. etc...it is exciting to read and if you and your husband both sign up to those websites..then you can both get excited every day/week and can then e-mail each other/phone one another about things--It basically just makes you feel excited and happy!
while you're pregnant if you can send him packages...send him of course ultrasound pictures, maybe if you can record the baby's heartbeat send him a tape of that, send him pics of your growing belly, send him snacks that you're having cravings for, send him funny pics of you're feet swelling and you yelling at someone and things that pregnant women do that can be hard to deal with, so he feels like a part of everything!





after the baby is born, of course pictures, send a clean diaper and maybe a small doll to help him practice (all in a joking matter)...he'll get a kick out of it! send over some baby food, and just novelty items like that. Keep a journal of all that is going on so that he doesnt feel like he's missed anything!





Good luck!
I just wanted to tell you i am going through the exact same thing. I'm 14 weeks pregnant and my husband has been gone for almost two months. The baby will be around 4 or 5 months when he comes home. Its really hard with him not being here. I sent him pics of the ultrasound and pics of my belly as it has been growing. Also he got to call me during one of my doctor appts. and we got to hear the heartbeat together for the first time. If he cant call then go to Build A Bear and buy one of their sound recorders to put in the Bear... its a really cute idea. Umm... just keep him as updated as possible on all things and try to record things as they happen to you and baby. Tell your husband thank you and god bless all three of you.

Anybody know where I can find a poem written about a husband who beats his wife to death?

In the poem apparently its an abusive relationship and has been for some time. He continuously beats her and towards the end the poet says that he is taking her flowers but this time to her grave. It was circling (sp) a lot on MySpace and even on Yahoo! Mail.....





I want to inspire a woman to leave her relationship.


Please help me find that poem.Anybody know where I can find a poem written about a husband who beats his wife to death?
I got flowers today.





It wasn't my birthday or any other special day.





We had our first argument last night.





And he said a lot of cruel things that really hurt me.





I know he is sorry and didn't mean the things he said.





Because he sent me flowers today.














I got flowers today.





It wasn't our anniversary or any other special day.





Last night, he threw me into a wall and started to choke me.





It seemed like a nightmare.





I couldn't believe that it was real.





I woke up this morning sore and bruised all over.





I know he must be sorry.





Because he sent me flowers today.














I got flowers today.





And it wasn't Mother's Day or any special day.





Last night he beat me up again.





And it was much worse than all the other times.





If I leave him what will I do?





How will I take care of my kids?





What about money?





I'm afraid of him and scared to leave.





But I know he must be sorry.





Because he sent me flowers today.














I got flowers today.





Today was a special day.





It was the day of my funeral.





Last night, he finally killed me.





He beat me to death.





If only I had gathered





Enough courage and strength to leave him.





I would not have gotten flowers today














by Paulette Kelly








Good luck to your friend.

My dog is jealous of the attention between me and my husband?

We have a 2 yr old toy poodle. We've had him for almost a yr. He gets lots of attention from all of the family.(husband, me and 4 kids) but whenever I sit on my husbands lap and kiss him or if we are huggin, my dog will jump up onto the back of the couch to get on us and shove in between our faces and start licking us. Why does he do this? We give him plenty of his own attention.My dog is jealous of the attention between me and my husband?
dogs are pack animals and you're excluding him. We had to deal with this with a few pets. You have to teach him proper response,


like any other inappropriate behavior.My dog is jealous of the attention between me and my husband?
Dogs do not display human emotions. They do not get jealous or angry or display other emotions that are restricted to humans. What your dog is doing is displaying territorial behavior. The dog is claiming both of you as its territory. This is not good as you do not belong to the dog it belongs to you. What has happened here is that you have not established alpha over the dog. You say it jumps up on the back of the couch. This indicates that the dog owns the couch and not you. There are many ways to establish alpha and the easiest way to learn it to enroll yourself and the dog is a good obedience class. Establishing alpha over the dog will give it confidence, and it will understand without a doubt its place in your family pack. This will make your dog a much better pet.

How often does the husband and wife have to sleep in separate tents?

If you are asking about Jewish law, then the separation period starts at menstruation and lasts until a week after the bleeding has fully stopped and the wife has gone to the ritual bath (roughly 12 days a month), In addition, they would remain separate after childbirth, with different waiting periods depending on whether the baby was a boy or a girl.How often does the husband and wife have to sleep in separate tents?
Whenever the snoring gets so bad you can't get any rest unless you have two bedrooms.... GO for it!





You don't have to sleep together to find the time for other things.... which occur while you are both awake, usually. LOLHow often does the husband and wife have to sleep in separate tents?
if your husband and wife why would you have to sleep in seperate tents. so ...





never

What do I say to a bestfriend who just left their husband?

She has just given birth to a new baby gurl. He had promised to help more when the baby is born. Two weeks later and he has failed to make the slightest of efforts. Drinking almost everynight. Frankly I think she should just leave him but she is completely in love with him, So I feel as a friend instead of piling my opnions on her I will simply hold her hand as she leaps.What do I say to a bestfriend who just left their husband?
My husband left me and three kids, got drunk for a month, then came home. Times can be hard, but just encourage her by saying that he will know what he has lost when he's gone. It is so true. He will want to come back. Encourage her to speak to him with kind words and not yell at him. If she holds the moral high ground then he will be the ';loser'; not her.What do I say to a bestfriend who just left their husband?
You say ';Frankly I think she should just leave him but she is completely in love with him,'; So she has not left him....and she's his wife, not yours.





Now to fully unfderstand the situation, you need to include why the father drinks--does he have debts, and therefore worries--or any other understandable reasons for him to not do his duty in those two weeks?





Be a supporting friend, but not more.
all you can do is be there for her. i have found that if you decide to give them advise they end up getting back with them and you look like the ***hole. because sure as i type this they always tell them all the advise you gave them. then they don't like you or want you around them. best thing to do is keep the adivse to yourself and just be a listening ear to her. just knowing that they can count on you is enough for them.sometimes they just want someone to listen.
You sound like a good friend. She is probably so sad and depressed and confused about what to do. Just let her know that you are there for her no matter what. That is the best kind of friend to have.
I think you're right... just be a sounding board, a shoulder to cry on, a hand to hold.





She's in a tough spot- loving him, probably not wanting to admit to herself that he's a lazy drunk.
Just listen. Sometimes saying nothing is the best thing we can do. After all, she has to get completely feed up and make up her own mind about her marriage.

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